<p>Fraternities are great, but may not be for everyone. When you consider the thousands of chapters across the country compared to the number of incidents that you read about, it is relatively small. </p>
<p>The most important thing for anyone is to find the fraternity that is best suited for that person. Before pledging, you can get an idea of what you will be going through to get into the house, and if that is not right for you, join a different house. For me, the house I joined was bad as far as hazing goes, but they did everything for a purpose. That being to bring the pledge class closer together and it worked. </p>
<p>A major part of pledging is risk management. More and more fraternities are looking at what they are doing and measuring its risk. I know in my experience, that if someone had way too much to drink, they would take them aside and not let them participate in any other events because there is a big liability if anything actually happens to that person. Now, not all fraternities are this vigilant, and this is where the trouble can begin. I will agree that some of the practices that pledges are forced to do are stupid, dangerous, and serve no purpose. However, if things are done properly, everything will be fine. I have seen more houses begin to approach their actions in this way, and not in the animal house fashion. </p>
<p>Moreover, to those that say there are no pros to fraternities, you are dead wrong. Throughout pledging and now as a brother, I feel that I have grown much more than I ever could have otherwise. Before, I was not very active in my school, but now I am treasurer of my fraternity, treasurer of a large on-campus organization, and members in many other clubs. This is because others push you to do things and reach your full potential. These are the best friends I have ever had, and I am building life long friendships. </p>
<p>Yes, there is alcohol, but no more than in any other part of college. In addition, no, we do not have kegs running 7 nights a week. If some people want to drink every night, they do, but this does not mean that everyone has to. Most do not drink until the weekend. </p>
<p>Overall, I am not trying to say that you do not have to like greek like, but what I am trying to say is that you should not just automatically judge the system based on some movies you have seen or news articles you have read.</p>