<p>lulubelle, what kinda of guy are you looking for then.</p>
<p>hmmm...i would forget that stuff and just start goin after who u want...the only reason me and the friend have had to settle on texting eachother "u look hot" and "wish we could take this party upstairs" comments back and forth is because of our mutual frineds....my ex and his best friend...well he doesnt knwo of this ltitle game we play...ahah if he did..well i probably would neve rbe alowed to speak to him again. its not liek i care who he hooks up wtih...but then again i put myself in his position...if he was doin this with my best freind...whooa all hell would break loose. i woudl be soo mad at my best friend...so i made this more of the ex and his freind problem then me and my ex probelm...if u get what im saying</p>
<p>no idea what you just said. it's ok tho</p>
<p>i got the gist of this thread</p>
<p>evanescen im lookin for a guy thats genuine, is well liked among my friends and family..or can become well likes...cute and can supply me physically and someone who is fun...</p>
<p>"supply me physically"</p>
<p>whoa hahaha</p>
<p>in my opinion i have got most of the stuff in this thread. looks included.
EDIT: assertion and confidence i lack</p>
<p>i've just been somehow isolated from the cute girls b/c the people i hang out with are kinda nerdy. all the cute girls go hang out with the hunky guys. </p>
<p>know what i mean?</p>
<p>like all my classes are mainly science and math cuz i love that stuff.
no cute girls in that.
and regardless...i gotta step outta the box and take an extra effort.
i gotta go to clubs and outside activities to meet girls.</p>
<p>approach the cute girls... </p>
<p>and they may want to hang out with you.</p>
<p>well couldn't you settle for a semi-nerdy/decent looking girl? </p>
<p>at least she's smart lol. ::shrugs::</p>
<p>heyy there are cute girls in math/science. i know tons, including me...haha jkjk. no really i know a lot of girls who are "cute" in math/science. it seems like most guys don't approach them though cuz maybe they're intimidated? iono. beats me cuz some are gorgeous and brilliant, yet guys don't go for them.</p>
<p>and the one that finds u...shes a keeper...</p>
<p>god some of the hottest kids are kids taht probably woudlnt expect to think that me or my friends or any girls for that matter find them hott...that innocence and ignorance is a big turn on haha</p>
<p>hey puffer...</p>
<p>i'm hot (hence the name) and smart. As a matter of fact i have a full ap course load this year.so girls can be smart and hot.</p>
<p>well couldn't you settle for a semi-nerdy/decent looking girl? </p>
<p>very few girls at my school fit that category unfortunately.
those that do, i happen to be attracted to them.
BUT, again....they hang with the "coooool" group. it's hard to become involved with them.</p>
<p>hey evanescent,</p>
<p>One last word before I head off. It's obvious that you care a lot about what a girl wants, and that's great. Wanting to improve is truly respectable.</p>
<p>But to be happy you need to understand what you want in return from a relationship. Many high school relationships end up in the dumps because one individual doesnt reciprocate. Putting in too much effort will leave you heartbroken and withered. Many guys put in so much heart into the relationship that they crave any morsel that is returned. They subconsciously begin to make excuses for the partner, set standards lower, and overall, turn their own life into a mess. </p>
<p>Don't start out too strong. Date casually and continue with other endeavors so that the relationship becomes integrated into daily routine rather than eclipsing it. Pretend its making friends rather than loving, and you'll have a great time. Happy New Year.</p>
<p>yea...but i dont knwo if its just me but....i woudl say im one of the more attractive girls in my school...and well i aam ALWAYS checkin out the kids who least expect it....and i get forward with them...so who knows..let her come to u!</p>
<p>true, i am very aware of that. </p>
<p>i am aware of a lot of this stuff. it's the hardest thing to implement it tho. and i'm speaking for every guy. i have had these convos with some guy friends occasionally and putting it to action is the hardest. finding a way to take the girl for the first time (or any other way of getting close to her) and putting past fears aside is hard. BUT IF u're like one of those COOL guys that hang out with all the hot girls everyday. IT"S EZ. i'm very jealous of them.</p>
<p>hey hotpiece, i know. some girls can be hot and smart. i just said that to evanescence cuz it seemed like he didn't have those kind of girls where he is. so i was suggesting a compromise. i edited my post btw.</p>
<p>oh, evanesence, just be confident, if you approach a girl and you're not confident, then she will know.</p>
<p>thanks a lot everyone</p>
<p>i'm going to try hard to get into the game =D</p>
<p>"well couldn't you settle for a semi-nerdy/decent looking girl? "</p>
<p>That's called classy. Intelligent. Me like</p>
<p>but see the weird thing with all these, is that at first you don't find the girl too attractive, but over time, her "classiness" really gets to you, and you suddenly find her very very cute.</p>
<p>i bet some hot girl in ur bio class checks u out everyday...haha</p>
<p>well maybe thats just me...to some kid in the back..</p>
<p>hahahaha....</p>