I’m a junior living at a 4 bed roommate apartment at a student housing. Roommate 1 been living with me since sophomore year and we just move into this apartment this junior year. We are not best friends but we’re in good terms. Tbh I think I’m a good roommate. I’m not nosy and mind my own business. School is driving me crazy so I don’t talk to the other roommates much so there’s no dramas or issues between us. I clean after myself AND themselves. I put out the trash mostly, clean the kitchen & the whole common area in general. I’m still not upset with that much.
Roommate 1 & I planning to move out next school year (in fall) together. However I feel like I can’t stand her mood swings anymore. She got mad and upset at things that not worth it and since I’ve been so neutral and enduring it so she expects me to still be okay with her after her meltdowns. For instance, she asked me to go the a free concert at school with her and I said yes, if it was not in the week after that bc I was having an exam coming up. Then on the day of my exam she asked me to go pick the tickets with her which she never told me ahead of time. I couldn’t go so she got mad and never reply my texts asking if she got the tickets for herself. Later she avoided me and one time we bumped into eachother at the front door, she had that mad face and ignored me. Or she got pissed when we were living with another roommate because she didn’t get to see the firework at the campus. She was the only had the parking decal but she didn’t want to drive. So we planned to take the shuttle. We missed the shuttle but instead of waiting for another 5 minutes for another shuttle, she went up to her room slammed her door and be mad inside. Things like this happen quite frequently whenever she’s stressed or upsets. I get it. Life is hard but she takes it on me for so many times I don’t know if I can continue endure it. Of course she choose to live with me bc I clean after both of ourselves and I spend money on most of the utilities in the apartment. I bought all the paper towels, dish soap, sponges, trash bags etc.
Am I overreacting and should be more chill and cool about what happened between us?Should I move out with her next year? Or should I move out by myself and have a peace of mind? Of course it’s gonna be moreee money but I’m gonna have some peace of mind. So sorry for rambling hope i can get some of your advices I don’t want to talk about this to anyone else because my friends don’t really like her already I don’t want them to hate her.