<p>"I have the knowledge but I don't have the familiarity that comes with actually taking the course. It's a matter of comfort."</p>
<p>That's exactly it!</p>
<p>"...All the members of my family agree Algebra II is probably the hardest math course we've had. My younger daughter is in Calculus I now and says it is easier than Algebra II."</p>
<p>Wow, that is reassuring! I will tell him that and it should make him feel better to know he has already faced the most formidable challenge.</p>
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<p>"don't see why he couldn't go into biology. "</p>
<p>He probably could, but he has no interest in biology or medicine. He's more interested in computers/technology/physics. He's looking forward to taking astronomy, and did very well in chemistry, but biology is probably the only science he's not interested in.</p>
<p>"Your son's probably doing the same thing - most things come easily to him, so when he encounters something that doesn't, he berates himself and stops trying..."</p>
<p>Yes, he is. I am concerned about his perfectionism. We've all heard of students who underachieved rather than face something that they found challenging, because they had a fear of not being perfect, even though their performance was adequate and maybe even high. Since they were so used to performing at stellar levels, they set perfectionistic goals for themselves.</p>
<p>I'm trying to help guide him now so that he may hopefully avoid some of the pitfalls you ran into. </p>
<p>"The most important thing you can do right now is force your son to do his math homework. I know it sounds cruel, especially if he has better things to do, but it's the only way he's going to learn how to work through his frustration."</p>
<p>I agree and I intend to do that. I already told him about the Algebra for Scientists/Engineers class and he seemed ok with it. He might even be relieved! I think he knows that this is what he needs. I am confident that he will do fine in the class and hopefully get over the anxiety.</p>