<p>Fortunately Polo1, the prestige of your alma mater fades quickly after that first day "on the job". From that point forward it is performance that counts. Becdause the best colleges tend to attract the best students, it is not surprising that their graduates typically have successful careers. However it is not the name at the top of the diploma that deterimines their success.</p>
<p>Haha, interestingly enough I'll probably be going to Cornell. I can understand why many wouldn't like it there, but I personally thrive in big environments and I absolutely love the 7 school system. I can see how it could drive some away though.</p>
<p>I'm really, really hoping I get into Harvard off the waitlist, but I know the chances are slim, so if that doesn't happen I'll have a great time at Cornell.</p>
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<p>So ironic that you are going to Cornell. It is a great school for so many. Good luck in getting off the waitlist at Harvard though. My son's friends at Vanderbilt all wish that they were there, as they perceive it to have grade inflation and a lot more, as you know.</p>
<p>I don't know anything about either school, but I think your daughter made a good decision based on what she knows about herself. I just talked to a mom whose daughter got into elite school. She turned down a lesser school that she loved because no one turns down an elite. She may be very happy there, but it sounded to me like she turned down a school she really wanted because other people told her the bigger school was a better choice. I don't want to do that to my child when the time comes to choose.</p>