<p>I assume you’re at ACC? A bit of advice from a resident ACC vet:</p>
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<li>If for some reason you don’t get into UT this semester, another semester or 2 at CC isn’t the end of the world. I know it feels exactly like HS right now, but that has little to nothing to do with the schoolyour first couple semesters at any college will inevitably feel that way because it basically <em>is</em> an extension of HS. The majority of classes are packed full with kids just out of HS, lost and immature and clueless about whether or not they even want to be in college, they’re there only b/c that’s “the thing to do” after HS. </li>
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<p>But there is light at the end of the tunnel! Once you get through about 2 or 3 semesters, the annoying people who don’t give a damn about their studies become sort of weeded out, so that by the time you reach 2nd or 3rd level classes, you classrooms are filled with higher concentrations of intelligent people who are there b/c they want to be, actually engaged in classes, and have all (mostly) put their petty/catty/ridiculous/immature HS personas behind them. It gets better, just don’t give up before you get to the good part!</p>
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<li><p>If you don’t like your campus, SWITCH! There are plenty to choose from! Different campuses have drastically different “feels.” I often take classes at multiple campuses in the same semester just to mix it up and break the monotony. Some are better than others. But if you’re as miserable as you say where you currently are, then move! This isn’t HS anymore you now have the freedom to move about as you please! HS was prison; you’re free now, so start enjoying it. </p></li>
<li><p>Are you in the Honors Program? If not, get there. Honors classes are head & shoulders above the general status quo, and they max out at 16. (Or wherever you’re in school, I’m sure this applies pretty much anywhere). Much more interesting topics, too. Look into it if you don’t feel challenged. And keep in mind that years 1-2 in <em>any</em> college or university consists of core curriculum… Outside of perhaps the Ivy League, it’s hard to imagine that English Comp I, US History, and Gen Chem I are going to be terribly challenging no matter where you go. Can’t really blame all that on the school; it’s more a function of our broader education system than anything else.</p></li>
<li><p>Transitioning from HS to college is always awkward, crazy uncomfortable and generally just not much fun b/c the comfort zone and social circle you’ve gotten used to for probably 4+ years undergoes abrupt upheaval. The good news is, it’s time to start actively redefining your life. It will now be whatever you choose to make it. If you’re bored and/or lonely, get yourself involved in something! Doesn’t matter what, just whatever you think you might be interested in, try it: student government, student life, PTK, some sort of club or something anything, really. One of the most difficult things about college, for me at least, was having to make an entirely new set of friends, starting basically from scratch… It can be very lonely at times. The thing is, for too long I assumed making friends in college would be the same as HS: just keep doing my own thing, and it would happen on its own, gradually & naturally. This is not the case. You’re no longer with the same people all day, everyday. If this is the strategy at play, you’re going to stay lonely for quite possibly the rest of your life. Making “grown-up” friends requires a concerted effort. You have to <em>intentionally</em> place yourself in new and different situations and settings that maximize the likelihood you’ll be able to strike up conversation with interesting people you might have a thing or two in common with. It can be really exhausting having to actually choose/make a whole new set of friends, and it does require some effort as opposed to the super easy friends-by-default-due-to-proximity thing from HS. But in the end, it’s totally worth it. </p></li>
<li><p>Last, but certainly not least, no matter whether you take any of the advice above, please do hear this: STOP BEING MISERABLE!! if you don’t like something, CHANGE IT. If you’re unhappy where you are, MOVE. Life is too short and we are blessed with far too many options to spend any sizable part of it being totally miserable. You can only blame external forces for so long; but if one <em>really</em> wants to be happy, it’s most likely to happen iff (if and only if, not a typo) we stop complaining and instead start doing something about it. </p></li>
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<p>Maybe it’s just me, but what follows was / is / will continue to be the single most difficult thing for me to really, truly grasp throughout this gradual evolution into adulthood: </p>
<p>The bad news: From now on, my life is only what I make it. </p>
<p>The good news: From now on, my life is only what I make it.</p>