@bandmomof3 It’s definitely possible, and in fact one of my classmates in CBH did band with ME. CBH has difficult parts, but most of first semester is focused on computer knowledge and basic coding. Most of band season is over before the project starts, and that’s where the real time commitment comes in. It may be a bit more difficult sophomore year onwards, when first semester will involve research and CBH Live presentations. But by that point he will know how to build a schedule that he can handle with band and his other activities.
There is no requirement for sorority members to drink. In fact, just about every sorority has smaller groups that do Bible study. Many members don’t drink.