<p>My first response to this thread: if a guy came up to me at a party and said he was looking for his future wife, I’d choke on my drink.</p>
<p>My second response: Marriage, like love, can’t be planned. You may or may not find them at college. A lot of people do, but then again, plenty of people don’t (my parents didn’t, my best friend’s parents are 10 years apart and obviously didn’t, etc). I wouldn’t be “on the prowl” for the future wife, but merely take your options and see where they lead.</p>
<p>Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years now. We met outside of college (I was in high school). We’re very much in love and I would love to marry him someday. Not soon though :P</p>
<p>As a girl headed to college this fall, it is a bit of a relief to know that at least one intelligent male is thinking along the same lines.</p>
<p>My parents have been married for 27 or so years and they met in college. I don’t know if they are each others’ “true loves,” but they sure have found a way to make it work and to make us a very happy family. I don’t know if I believe in true love, as I think you can control your feelings about others if you want to–you can make yourself love anyone or hate anyone. I am looking for someone I get along with, someone I can work with, and someone with similar goals in life.</p>
<p>I know that I would like to finish college and attend law school and promptly get married by the age of 25. Hopefully I will meet a man who can work and make a solid income while I have the three kids that I want before I am 30. If his income is not high enough, I would delay the kids and get to work. I have an extremely long list of qualifications that I will look for in a husband–things that will make me happy and are conducive to me achieving my goals in life–and I know that as long as I keep this list in mind when dating, I will make a good decision. </p>
<p>I likely will not be looking for a husband my freshmen year in college, but I am definitely thinking about the kind of person to keep an eye for–the best place to find him will probably be in the next four years, surrounded by kids my age who are mostly single and intelligent.</p>
<p>i asked my brother about this and he said that the only ppl who marry in college or immediately after graduation to start a family are ugly ppl.
because hot people are spending their college years partying it up, having fun, and making sure college is the best years of their lives…</p>
<p>What my leader in frosh weak told me was that if your going to have sex, better have it in college when everyone is the same age, and there are not many bones in the closet. U don;t want to be having sex with girls who you find out later are crazy or ten years older than you.</p>