what do girls look for in a guy?

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<p>I love how you guys seem to think you're experts on what girls want ("Girls like guys who act like *******s and have money") without apparently paying attention to what the actual girls are saying.</p>

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The only statement that remotely supports your theory is...</p>

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And even that one isn't cut and dry. Something to think about?</p>

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<p>"You will only enjoy "it" when you really have some serious chemistry with the girl, one night stands suck ass."</p>

<p>What I have to say about this is that hell, when you're really hungry you'll settle for a burger when you would prefer a rib eye :P</p>

<p>and about girls liking *<strong><em>s with money what I have to say about this is correlation not causation. Just because you see many girls with *</em></strong>*s with money it doesn't mean THAT is particularly what attracts them.</p>

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<p>ronty, something like that...it mostly depends on you and the girl's relationship. If she has no idea who you are.. you might wanna introduce yourself and move on from there.</p>

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<p>tahts what they say on the internet.</p>

<p>I have alot more friends who treat excessivly smart and very good looking girls like crap. Then theirs guys like me who are gentlemen and nice kind people. and I can still get girls but they arent in the numbers of them and ive experimented before, and actually had better luck with girls, by calling them names, making fun of them, ans making myself look supiror to them and them looking like dirt.</p>

<p>I dont do that stuff, because its not me. But i garentee its true.</p>

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<p>i like how my comment is the one that constantly stands out.</p>

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<p>UB-Vinny77: I can't explain that. All I can tell you is that I, personally, would never even consider a guy who "called me names, made fun of me, made himself look superior than me, and treated me like dirt". But of course this is coming from a girl who was raised in a dysfunctional family and was bullied through most of elementary/middle school, so I guess a girl with a more sheltered ("normal") upbringing might have weaker boundaries in regard to being treated like crap? I really couldn't say.</p>

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<p>thisyeargirl, i think vinny77 meant that making fun jokingly can sometimes help get a girl's attention. personally, iv seen that making fun and playing around that way sometimes does help :p</p>

<p>calling names and seriously treating the person like dirt seems quite negative though. iv got no idea how that would help</p>

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<p>callthecops2, that does make sense... but I can't respect a guy who treats girls like crap, even "for fun". I guess that probably makes me an anomaly.</p>

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<p>no i'm..malaysian</p>

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<p>do u know Kenyon_10....He is a Malaysian too</p>

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<p>What?????????? He is a Malaysian. Not Indian.
Plz be polite on public threads.</p>

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<p>ronty, r u indian? sorry if i offended u.</p>

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<p>Yes. I m an Indian. And I am not offended.</p>

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<p>where do you go to school?</p>

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<p>I have passed my HS. Presently I am in India. What about you?</p>

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<p>1 yr at kenyon, might transfer next year. thinking bowdoin, midd, or vassar</p>

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<p>Cool!................. :)</p>

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<p>hotpiece: do u think i am joking?</p>

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<p>no, i know you are not joking.</p>

<p>i just think that the phrase "takes it up the a.s.s" is so hilarious. my friends say it all the time but i still find it incredibly amusing.</p>

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<p>I dont think that one should ask this question on CC, since the average girl isn't as mature and intelligent as their CC counterparts.</p>