<p>Sooooooooooooo, after reading this thread and looking at back posts to sleuth out the schools I am hear to tell you the BOY DID GOOD!!</p>
<p>Seriously.</p>
<p>Having had 5 kiddos go through all this craziness along with now all the grad school “stuff” I have the perspective of the other side.</p>
<p>I honestly would be excited about the ones he did get into vs the ones he didn’t. Yes, they are building a class, yes they all want fit, yes they could build several classes BUT maybe, just maybe the ad coms knew what they were doing.</p>
<p>It wasn’t that he wasn’t qualified, maybe over-qualified stats-wise, but maybe they saw something that would not make him a great fit for that specific school.</p>
<p>However the ones where he was accepted might have also seen something where he would definitely be bringing something to their campus, to their community and where he would thrive.</p>
<p>I would be jumping up and down for most if not all the choices he has. If I have figured it right the one with the merit but loans for the need based aid has a fantastic med school that DS’s good friend from undergrad (ivy) is at and she LOVES it. The other choice with doable aid is also very exciting, was oldest daughter’s top choice years ago but ended up at state school on her way to vet school.</p>
<p>Its all a matter of perspective. The financial aid forum is full of accept/denies. Accepted but cannot attend since the money isn’t there, nasty gaps.</p>
<p>Soooooooo exciting, HE IS GOING TO COLLEGE. It is a whole new adventure! New places, new friends, he gets to choose his classes, new ECs…YES, you have permission to go crazy and it will be infectious…</p>
<p>I would go out for a celebratory dinner, pour over all the info packets, dive into course catalogs, maybe make a trip or two and talk it up.</p>
<p>Have fun, these 4 years will fly by. Ask any of those parents with college students graduating in a few months. Cherish this time, for it will be one of the few last times he will be looking for your leadership and guidance. He will see your strength and will know how proud you are of him. And tell him. Again and again. And when he buys the sweatshirt, run over and get a mom one for yourself. And the matching cute socks. </p>
<p>Put it on, wear it til it falls apart and let him be embarrased. He really isn’t.</p>
<p>Enjoy, have fun and remember this will not happen again.</p>
<p>Kat</p>