<p>pb, what poor white friend are you talking about??? i don't remember posting that...not here, anyway.</p>
<p>and anyway, i do understand what you're talking about- being an example to others, do for yourself, etc. But I can't help wishing that everyone else was "up here" with me. I don't want us to keep being generally lower on the ladder. I don't want to be one of a well off few while the rest of us have to "scrounge." And if you think that's a bad thing, i can't help questioning where your morals are coming from.</p>
<p>And i don't blame you for anything, i blame those that continue the
entire aff action system.</p>
<p>i knew i would catch flack for posting this, but it's a risk i'm willing to take.</p>
<p>"Maybe I just don't understand because I come from a family of immigrants that was never subjected to any of that, but really- it's over. "
Yes, I know. Slavery, all that, is over. I'm talking about NOW. why haven't we caught up yet, etc?</p>
<p>"Your parents may not have been able to achieve much because they were born into oppresion. But you were born equal. You can achieve whatever you want. " Actually, my parents have been able to achieve alot. We live in an upper middle class neighborhood... they're starting a business... we're definetly not "ghetto" in any sense of the word.</p>
<p>"Also, I'm really sick of people on this site saying that "they know firsthand" that certain minorities only got in because of affirmative action." i don't think people can get in solely on aff action, but i hate how people say that being urm is this major plus in the admission process. If affirmative action was made illegal... if blacks gave more effort... they couldn't say those things, and then we really would be equal.</p>
<p>note-i wrote the original post with speed in mind. by original minority i meant that more of us were here before the asians and other groups migrated. i'm sorry i forgot about the native americans, and hope i didn't seriously offend anyone.</p>
<p>janelle-sounds just like my school...</p>
<p>mj93-does this person live within 30 miles of houston?
singdancetoolazytotypetherest- i hope not, because that's really depressing.</p>
<p>nicknack-ha, i used to live in mn. valid points, though. i'm not sure if i agree, but i see the sense in it.</p>
<p>shimshimhey- our situations are really not so different, you know. i just kind of plugged into my school's ap community so i compete with them instead. but that's what i've been talking about- i don't want to have an advantage at all.</p>