<p>no intuition is something that is used to protect oneself</p>
<p>ever dated a guy, and you just "felt" something was wrong? ever told your D to trust what she is feeling and not ignore the signs?</p>
<p>too often we tell our children to ignore what they sense is wrong and suddenly it blows up and its, well, I Knew something wasn't right</p>
<p>fine, call me a flamer or whatever, but if more people trusted themselves to look at a situation and pay attention, we would be better off</p>
<p>I am NOT saying get all paranoid, or run off and do something rash or report anyone, I am saying, be prepared, because in a sitatution like this, with the RM already being kind of rude, it can get very uncomfortable if the OPs D isn't ready to deal</p>
<p>It may be just fine and dandy, but my instincts and experience tells me that the Rm has a lot of growing up to do</p>
<p>My oldest D had a friend who was slipping and slidng slowing down hill, she talked to be about it, we talked about what to look for, and that it was okay to talk to someone about her concerns</p>
<p>I am not diagnosing anything, never did, however, I am saying that the warning signs are there that the RM will not do well in college and can in fact, unless her attitude changes a huge amount, can make life uncomfortable for OPs D because the RM jsut doesn't seem to care much about how others feel, and that is a warning to trust your gut if you thnk something is wrong</p>
<p>even here we are disparaging instinct and intuition, more girls need to learn to listen to those voices more,not less</p>
<p>Different, please, I live in SF, a bastion of different</p>