<p>LOL some of y’all have the most random and specific deal-breakers…it’s like</p>
<p>must be between 5’9.75" - 6’1.5"
hazel eyes with green flecks
cannot be a biochemistry major</p>
<p>:P whatever floats your boat i guess.</p>
<p>also, i can totally understand why someone wouldn’t want a boyfriend/girlfriend who smokes cigs but is ok with weed. i wouldn’t want a total pothead but a little weed now and then is fine. yeah, it is unhealthy, but so are donuts and I sure as hell don’t mind those. obviously weed is a drug so I don’t see why people are arguing over it</p>
<p>For me it’s
-cigarettes/drugs
-excessive drinking if 21+…drinking at all if under .
-shorter than me…sorry
-an idiot
-superduper religious
-overly stubborn
-really conservative</p>
<p>I don’t care if they’re a vegetarian unless they shove it in my face like “that’s an animal you’re eating” or they make faces when I eat…that’s just rude.</p>
<p>I dont really have any deal breakers… I could fall in love with a tree if the circumstances were right…all you need is for the oxytocin and vasopressin to activate and bam! your in love</p>
<p>Shallow side:
-Can’t be shorter than me (I’m 5’4, that’s probably not too big of a problem)
-Very unattractive</p>
<p>General:
-Unhygienic (aka, constant dirty/rumpled clothing, odor, breakouts from bad habits, etc; I like a guy that can take care of himself)
-Rude, arrogant, cocky (these are all the same to me)
-No sense of humor </p>
<p>Weird:
-Can’t be younger than me, even if it is only by a month or two. Call me weird, but I like being the younger of the couple…I guess it just makes me feel more protected. This isn’t saying that I’m going to go for insanely older guys, though–that’s just creepy. Oh unless I turn into a gold-digger in the future, of course. xD</p>
<p>If they text at the table all the time but are otherwise perfect, so what? </p>
<p>But IF I had to choose any, they would be:
-Someone who doesn’t respect my family.
-Someone who puts me down without noticing.
-Someone who complains/whines alot.
-Pessimists.</p>
<p>-unintellectual
-conservative
-religious if they are they try to convert me (don’t care otherwise)
-jerk
-fat (I guess I’m biased, being a girl, but I feel like it’s easier for guys to stay thin…)
For long term:
-Doesn’t want to live in Midwest (not completely deal breaker, but pretty up there)
-Wants to live in the south (complete deal breaker)
-Wants to live somewhere hot (going to school in AZ and I hate the weather. So much.)</p>
<p>Also, I’m curious, what do guys consider fat?</p>
<p>-Not a committed Christian
-Not a virgin
-Tattoos
-Piercings IF she won’t remove them permanently
-Phone freaks
-Shallow (whether science, art, economics, etc., she must be interested in something serious)
-Doesn’t like Mystery Science Theater 3000
-Hates videogames (she doesn’t have to like them, just don’t look down your nose)
-Is unwilling to watch classic or foreign movies with me (not all of the time, but ones I think are really special that she’d like)
-Doesn’t like animals or kids
-No freaky mental/emotional issues unless they’re under control with counseling and/or medication
-Fat
-Flat
-Bad English (saying “ax” instead of “ask,” etc.)
-Doesn’t like the outdoors
-Hates cats
-Statist</p>
<p>I’m a big believer in maximum human freedom, not just for moral reasons but because it makes a nation more prosperous. If she believes in using the power of the state to control peoples’ lives, that’s a value I can’t reconcile with. Some people might say “if she’s too liberal,” or “she’s a leftist,” etc., but these categories aren’t as ideologically consistent as people might think. I’m in favor of relatively free immigration and drug law liberalization and I do not want laws about marriage, which some might consider left-wing or liberal (I don’t) and I’m also ardently pro-life and ardently laissez-faire on economic policy. Some conservatives/right-wingers/Republicans hold a few statist ideas and some liberals/left-wingers/Democrats hold a few libertarian ideas.</p>
<p>So rather than say Democrat or Republican, liberal or conservative, left or right, I prefer to say statist or libertarian, the only classifications that are consistent.</p>
<p>jeez tom, what are you gonna do when your middle aged and older and looking for a woman… hope you realize you’re not going to find a virgin then unless you’re willing to be a pedophile.</p>
<p>Personally, I don’t think I can determine deal-breakers until I meet someone who could be that special to me. I think the only one would be height because I’m a 5’10" girl and I can’t date someone shorter, it just feels awkward to me. But I can’t say things like I wouldn’t be able to handle someone who smokes cigarettes or something like that because even though I’m against that there are so many other factors that come in that I can’t determine what’s a deal-breaker. I guess it’s one of those things where you don’t know until you’re in the situation.</p>