<p>It is very possible for a girl to mean that in a playful way. But that means you’re friends with her, and she’s pretty sure that’s all you want.</p>
<p>I disagree. Being playful is a good thing. What’s really the big deal is that she’s telling you about crushes she has on other people. Not good. :/</p>
<p>I dunno. More details would be helpful here, but you probably just need to blow her off some and move her down on the priority list, or at least pretend to.</p>
<p>Eh even my best guy friends whom I would never date, I’ve still considered what they would be like as boyfriends. Just because I think of them as friends now doesn’t mean they can’t be un-friend-zoned if something arose, ie their feelings.</p>
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<p>Q: Would any of your best guy friends have any chance of getting a “yes” response if they told you about their feelings? </p>
<p>A: “my best guy friends whom I would never date”</p>
<p>Again, if you want to get crushed, which sometimes is best, you can tell her about your feelings. </p>
<p>In other news, the worst thing you can do when friend-zoned is tell a girl about your feelings. In fact, I’d strongly advise never pull the “I really like you” card, unless you know for a fact she really likes you (and obviously she’ll show this). My friend is in this spot right now.</p>
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<p>@Lastchance What if the girl kept saying “you’re my partner in crime”, I think she knows that I like her and use this as a rejection. Although I never talked to her about my feeling.</p>
<p>Dude hold one,</p>
<p>Your not screwed, you got a chance, its what you do though from here on out. My girlfriend and I have been best friends since 8th grade and were super close and i watched as she dates and she watched as i dated. One day she told me that her boyfriend cheated on her 3 times and mentally abused her. I took it upon myself to right this wrong of his. Now we have been dating for 2 years and are super happy. You have to be drastic man, gotta go on a leap of faith and not be afriad to get hurt. Worse comes to worse, you go on with your life, trust me, woman HATE being ignored and rejected just as much as men so once she sees you with someone else flirting, she will come back. Trust me on this friend.</p>
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<p>This basically never happens. Sure, it’s awesome when it does. But don’t think for a second that rescuing someone from their abusive boyfriend is how you’re going to find a relationship.</p>
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I don’t know. It’s not like I’m some expert at this. I mean, I like to think I’m not completely terrible anymore at reading the oh-so-painfully obvious signs that girls to give to guys they like. Your spot isn’t completely hopeless, but it isn’t good.</p>
<p>You know, I think I’m overanalyzing a bit. </p>
<p>This isn’t that complicated. DFleming is right. You just need to back off and move on with your life. Hit on other girls. Blow her off. I mean, I know it’s hard, but it’s BY FAR your best option.</p>
<p>Thanks you guys, I do need to grow some balls!</p>
<p>Your right it doesnt happen, but im saying there ARE ways to get passed that barrier.</p>
<p>VENTING:</p>
<p>There’s this girl that I met on the first day of college this summer. We really hit it off because we found out that we actually live really close to each other (small world type of thing). She asked me for my number and I gave it to her and I got hers and were on facebook together. Its been a month since then and she hasn’t responded to my texts or messages on facebook. </p>
<p>Am I crazy or something? She obviously wanted to hang out or something if she asked for my number…I hope. </p>
<p>So confused.</p>
<p>spyder- is it possible that she’s traveling or somewhere where she doesn’t have access to internet/cell phones?</p>
<p>She has access to internet because she makes posts on facebook but doesn’t respond to my mine.</p>
<p>My philosophy on girls is as follows:</p>
<p>There’s two types of women. My mum and whores. If she isn’t your mum then she’s a lying whore. Don’t believe anything she says. Be a dick, it’s worked for me up to this point.</p>
<p>@spyder- Welcome to manhood, women are hot one minute and cold the next, you’ll grow used to it.</p>
<p>I truely have no clue how the mind of a girl works but I think you might be right though. Every relationship I’ve had has ended on some of the craziest things you can think of. I think i’ll start being a dick, it seems to work for most people.</p>
<p>I mean I’d rather get a rejection instead of waiting in the dark. I guess it’s best that I move on. I’m tired of waiting.</p>
<p>Please don’t start being a dick. XD</p>
<p>Well you either be a dick to women or let them be a dick to you. I’d go with the former.</p>
<p>Or you could realize that your view of the world is black and white, when in reality there are shades of gray.</p>
<p>Not every girl is like that.
Just like not all guys are dicks.</p>
<p>@feuxfollets Spoken like a true veteran in college dating.</p>
<p>Girls that want the nice guys are the kind of girls you wouldn’t want to bring home in the first place; clingy, emotional bags.</p>