<p>Ask her if she wants to use your calculator.</p>
<h2>"Well you either be a dick to women or let them be a dick to you. I’d go with the former. "</h2>
<p>I agree with this sentiment! Learn to read her body language, (ie Girl flicks her hair when you are w/ her, she doeen’t mind that you sit/stand really close to each other). These are subconscious/conscious clues–they either say, back off, I like it, or try again. You can gage how well you are doing by this. Honestly, I think the best/better way of getting a girl would be to flirt fast and hard from the very beginning! Be witty, tease and make her laugh. Women are entirely driven by emotions, if you can evoke certain emotions, then she will associate those feelings with only you–maybe she will fall for you!</p>
<p>^^^Thanks for the advice. I can see now I was being too nice.</p>
<p>@Nasty: make sure you give it to her in RPN</p>
<p>As a guy, I can sympathize with the “be a dick to girls” school of thought. Any guy with even a tiny bit of experience knows that nice guys get trampled on and their hearts broken, while d*****bags roll knee-deep in poon. However, once you grow tired of banging bar-whores and sororstitutes, you will realize that the “be a dick to girls” model won’t assist you when it comes to finding a girl whose personality and values you actually respect and admire. Didn’t Hemingway say that tough girls were the only ones who mattered?</p>
<p>In any case, pursuing a girl you recently met entails NOT bending over backwards to text/call/FB message her. One text is sufficient, and tone down the desperation. Don’t sound like you have better things to do, ACTUALLY HAVE better things to do. If she doesn’t respond, f* her. Move on.</p>
<p>Just ask her out, the worst she can say is no of you’re good friends</p>