<p>I know if a guy's shy it can make it all a little difficult. It definitly slows things down but I personally think its kind of cute.
I made a mistake by once going out with a guy who was 'shy'. I just took it as the typical you-make-me-nervous kind of shy but he never seemed to get over it. It was always me trying to talk or complete silence. It came down to the fact that he wasn't 'shy' as he claimed to be. He simply didn't have much of a life. I felt bad but I dumped him soon. There was no where we were getting anywehre if he was just goin to sit there listening to me agreeing with everything i said.
But some guys are simply shy. I know a guy I like who's just shy around me and tongue tied because i make him nervous because i know that he can talk ALOT. in cases like that you just have to give it some time. Let them try to talk and make sure to talk too. eventually things get sort of normal and you'll get it going.</p>
<p>I know what you mean by that too. This guy I like gets so shy around me that at times I wonder if he's just giving the cold shoulder until something happens and i know for sure that he's just too nervous to do much. Ah, you just have to give it a go though at some point you just have to give up, I guess.</p>
<p>Social</a> Anxiety Disorder</p>