<p>Think of it this way, with rejection, you are no worse off then when you started. With acceptance you are better off.</p>
<p>I'm the most brazen person you'll meet...but this is what goes on in my mind:</p>
<p>Go for it. If you've seen this person (or these people) in the gym, and only in the gym, what risk do you run of ever seeing them again? There's nothing to fear. If you're rejected, then the guy's an *******. If you're not, kudos to you. If you don't even bother to talk to him...well then, you're just rejecting yourself, aren't you?</p>
<p>Thanks every1 :)</p>
<p>wow bendrum is a bit slow. Then again, that applies to all sex and the city fans LOL</p>
<p>hmm i'm sitting trying to think of someting to say to you that would communicate how annoying you are but also how stumped i am by your stupidity. ?</p>
<p>OH, well at least I don't sit around watching conspiracy theory videos and dave chapelle.</p>
<p>this kind of thing is wayyy easier for girls than for guys.
If you're at least semi decent looking (you dont have to be gorgeous) you can just go up to him and start talking to him about anything (not like hows the weather) but like something in the gym or whatever. That will connect you two, and later on, he might start to like you or he might not. If he doesn't, well youve got a new friend. If he does, you got what you want.</p>
<p>Guys can't do that to any girl however.</p>
<p>Hilarious bendrum. That really offended me. I think I'm going to slit my wrists in anguish. I don't know how you can be so evil. MAKE IT STOP I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE :(</p>
<p>Okay? I'm not sorry...?</p>
<p>OVB, bendrum...why don't you two just get along?? you are like this in every thread you post in lol.</p>
<p>Peace, people...:)K thanx</p>
<p>So, guys... I always see him lifting a TON of weight. Should I comment on that?</p>
<p>"Wow, how much weight is that?" or something like that... just to get ir started? Should I compliment him?</p>
<p>do u want a date or a hookup?</p>
<p>ask him to show you how to use one of the weight machines...</p>
<p>I must remind you, a lot of people who are doing serious weight-training do not like to be interrupted while they are working-out. Try him as he's exiting the facility.</p>
<p>i agree with bendrumfront.</p>
<p>not a hook-up. a date.</p>
<p>a guy by default would think u want a hookup.</p>
<p>lol oh man</p>
<p>That idea about gym machines sounds good.
BTW, I got confused..when you said gym i thouhgt you meant school gym lol..guess i was wrong.</p>