<p>Stuck, I dont give a damn. It's a message board. I have my little fun, and then I go do other stuff. I dont hate anyone I dont know. Besides, hating someone just shows that you actually spend time thinking about them. </p>
<p>One reason why I'm better than bendrum :I KEEP IT REAL and no it NEVER GOES WRONG UNLESS YOU'RE VERNON</p>
<p>THUG LIFE</p>
<p>WU TANG :D</p>
<p>ummm you go to a gym to lift weights</p>
<p>if you want to flirt go to the mall or something. this guy prolly doesnt wanna be disturbed.</p>
<p>you know what ive learned, you're not gonna get anywhere by just being shy and ignoring the things you wont</p>
<p>if you want it, go for it and fight aggressively</p>
<p>whatever you want OVB</p>
<p>As a guy who does some "serious" weight-lifting, I'll chime in. At first glance, you should be able to tell if you think this guy is going to care if you interupt him or not. Just by his body language or facial expressions as he's exercising will often give a negative or positive vibe. Also, does he wear headphones when he works out? That's a big thing to me, I personally wouldn't approach someone who has headphones when they are in the course of their workout. Maybe if he goes to get some water or something or as others have said, as he's finishing.</p>
<p>Personally, I don't care when girls come up to me and start some small talk. I think it's very good in fact because you at least know you have something in common right away(working out).</p>
<p>If the guy looks approachable, ask him if he can help you with something. Either explaining a machine or even set up a bench(even with just the bar, if thats too heavy then a couple lighter free weights or something) and ask him for a spot. If he gladly does this, it may spark more conversation. If he looks reluctant, then at least you got your answer as to this guy being worth it or not.</p>
<p>I personally think the gym is not the place to meet people. Try eharmony.</p>
<p>I disagree, the gym is totally a sweet place to meet the opposite sex.. I don't know about women think but I totally get turned on when I see an attractive girl working out in those loose clothes lol. If anything, before approaching a girl I already knows that she cares about her body which is definitely a plus. LOL my friend actually randomly made out with a girl at the local fitness center yesterday. Que romantico!;)</p>
<p>Oh lol.. well.. I guess I made it sound like I go to the gym to flirt. I don't. I've been going to the gym for a year and 1/2 now, to work out and train for the sports I do. I just happened to see a very cute guy that I like :) and wanted some advice. I'm not the kind to go to the gym to just flirt lol</p>
<p>evil<em>asian</em>dictator- you are wrong.</p>
<p>when you go to gym you sweat. your face turns red. your breath becomes rough. you frown as you get tired. your clothes show your ugly tummy.</p>
<p>not my ideal place for meeting the opp sex.</p>
<p>Find<em>a</em>Way--Unless you had a dirty mind. :)
If you can catch on to what I'm pointing to here.</p>