<p>As deferred 2004 EA applicant who is now at Yale, don't give up. Here are some tips to help until April 1st.</p>
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<li>Forget about Yale until at least 12/31. </li>
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<p>You are allowed a couple of days of recuperation time to deal with deferral, but then forget about Yale. Focus on your other applications, because it is still important to make sure those are good. Look at your Yale application for things that might have been improved (I completely rewrote one of my essays and threw out the other one), but outside of that, forget about Yale. It is easy during the early round to see Yale as the only school you could ever go to. If you created a longer college list before you applied EA, take this time to remember the reasons those schools made that list. As you fill out your applications you will have to demonstrate why you want to go to each school so you better have some idea yourself.</p>
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<li>Keep Yale in the back of your head, until 4/1.</li>
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<p>I actually found this easier to do than I thought, mainly because I just started stressing about the other 7 schools I was applying to in addition to Yale so my stress wasn't so focused. There actually was a brief period around March when Yale stopped being my first choice.</p>
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<li>If Yale is still your first choice around February think about writing an update to your admissions officer. </li>
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<p>This is especially good if you have won awards or something happened that would improve your application, but really anything that you can use as an excuse would be good. Just write a brief letter why Yale is your first choice and stress that you would come if accepted. Don't send anything too extensive and try not to send more than one update. Also, if you didn't get an interview in the early round, now would be a good time to pursue it. E-mail the alumni coordinator in your area and just say you were deferred and would still like an interview if at all possible (this happened to me when my assigned interviewer never got in touch with me in the EA round). Any legitimate excuse you have to remind Yale of your existence is good, but make sure that you don't get persistent. One or two updates maximum and an interview if you didn't have one in EA.</p>
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<li>No matter what happens on 4/1, know you did your best and consider what options you do have carefully.</li>
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<p>If you do get in, while Yale is a great place, make sure that it is the best place for you. Compare Yale to the other schools you were accepted at and try your best to visit and make as informed a decision as possible. One of the best parts about being deferred EA for me was that I really forced myself to consider other schools and almost didn't choose Yale, so now I am very happy with my decision. </p>
<p>If you don't get in, hopefully you will have acceptances to other schools that you can get equally psyched about. My friends who didn't get into Yale are now very happy at schools like Columbia and Stanford and they wouldn't change that for the world. It sounds trite now, but most of you will be happy at wherever you go. The only people that aren't happy are those that can't get over the fact that the school they are at isn't Yale or Harvard or whatever school they wanted to go to.</p>
<p>Whatever you do, don't give up hope. There is a reason at Yale (unlike Harvard oftentimes) why you were deferred and not rejected. While most deferred students still won't get in, most people don't get into Yale anyways. It will be over by May for you and while that seems a long time away, once you are there it will be over.</p>