<p>As far as I see it, you have no obligation to tell her, nor do you really talk, so I don’t really see why you should. I have spoken like 10 words to my roommate since October as well :)</p>
<p>And with the drugs, I don’t think you should tell her, I mean, depending on how she is, some people would probably report you. </p>
<p>On a side note, I wish my school was more lenient. We can kicked out if we are caught for alcohol twice, or once for any other drug.</p>
<p>@Itachirumon, you haven’t said anything specific to me. I’m a major lurker: I SEE ALL!
So I knew that you would be attracted to this thread like a bug to a headlight, and I also knew that given your post history, my comments would be red-flagged.</p>
<p>@ RYMD… hahahahahha</p>
<p>You don’t have to tell her you’re a lesbian. That’s none of her business. You don’t even have to tell her that you do drugs. But absolutely don’t keep them in the room. It’s standard rule at universities that if drugs or alcohol are found, everyone that lives there, or everyone that was present when it was found get in trouble. You said you would never risk getting her in trouble, but you already are. So please find a better hiding place.</p>
<p>^Dude, like I said it’s NOT a standard rule here. I’ve seen people get busted for drugs. Only the person’s whose they are gets in trouble. I don’t have anywhere else to put them. I also don’t do them in the room. They are just stored there, well, and there is no reason anyone would just find them unless they like seriously went through my stuff.</p>
<p>My issue is whether I should tell her or not.</p>
<p>Plus who doesn’t keep alcohol in their rooms lol? You don’t get in trouble for that here, they just take it away. I’ve been caught a bunch of times in other people’s rooms and nothing happened to me or them. They just take it away. Sometimes they don’t even do that lol</p>
<p>Where do u go to school?</p>
<p>@mathsciencedude. hey! “stop being a lesbian.” why don’t you stop existing? people like you are nothing but aggravating. also, @ roxsox you don’t have to tell her. it’s none of her business, but you really shouldnt keep drugs in your room.</p>
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<p>I don’t think he was being serious…</p>
<p>@Carmelita3, Why don’t you stop responding to sarcastic posts? People like you are so aggravating.</p>
<p>People should get off their high horses and stop hounding her about her drugs. People who do drugs are just smart and brave enough to open their minds to something new and that’s that. Also, where in the heck would she keep them besides her room? Maybe she should bury them under a rock outside?</p>
<p>But I second the person who said you shouldn’t tell her about the drugs. Some people might report and if you haven’t said ten words to her then you have no idea who this person is. As for the lesbian thing, accepting it is her problem.</p>
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<p>Don’t flatter yourself.</p>
<p>@TomWolfe321
majority of the people responding don’t care that she’s doing drugs. They are just concerned about what if she gets caught and her roommate gets in trouble as well.
BUT she stated that her uni. doesn’t have those type of rules…which I find odd, but whatever.</p>
<p>@RoxSox you guys aren’t friends and barely talk what is the point of telling her? Lets say you do tell her about the drugs, and one day something happens then she has dirt on you and could try to get you in trouble on campus.
About being a lesbian. I don’t think that concerns her. If it was someone important in your life and was actually apart of your life then I’d understand why you’d tell her. But she is not your friend or related to you so telling her is pointless.</p>
<p>@TomWolfe… Hahahaha</p>
<p>And the people that choke themselves to get high are the pioneers of our generation…</p>
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<p>An 11 year old boy that I coach died of this 3 days before Christmas 2 months ago. </p>
<p>Yeah, most people don’t care the OP is doing drugs. But you don’t have a right to put your roommate in danger of getting into trouble like that.</p>
<p>^ Really cool story dude. I’m really glad you shared this with us. </p>
<p>That kid is also an idiot.</p>
<p>^^ I think I heard about that. I am sorry to hear that you were affected by it. 
I remember kids used to do similar things when we were that age, it seemed like nobody understood what kind of danger they were putting themselves in-- it’s not <em>cool</em> to think about that.</p>
<p>You’ve put your roommate in a very uncomfortable position. Your sexuality is irrelevant, but your choice of drugs is not. If she tells the authorities, then she gets pegged as a squealer. If she doesn’t tell, then she could be in trouble along with you.</p>
<p>Why do drugs, anyway? You can harm your body and career. It just isn’t worth it.</p>
<p>You don’t have to tell her about either thing. And I completely disagree with all the people who say ‘Don’t get your roommate in trouble by stashing your drugs in your room.’ Unless you went to BYU or Bob Jones university AND you told the police officers to **** off and went completely ape-**** when they confronted you about the drugs in your room (which, mind you, based on your description would’ve had to illegally search your room for), then I think you’re fine. And to echo what TomWolfe or whoever said, where the hell else should she put the drugs? Honestly? Because I can’t think of a better place to prevent them from being found than a secret hiding spot only you know.</p>
<p>And actually, yeah, a very significant amount of people who were/are considered visionaries and geniuses experiment(ed) with drugs in their lifetimes. I was completely against it until sophomore year, but I agree fully that it does open doors to new perceptions. In fact, my English teachers noted a huge difference in my writing abilities after I started experimenting and mixing drugs. Obviously I didn’t tell them that that’s what it was, but I’m definitely a proponent of experimenting. So long as you’re aware of the combinations and what your body can take, and you read into all the potential harms and what to/not to mix, then I think you’re fine. A couple weekends ago, I had about 8 drinks, 3 7.5mg vikes, a bar and a soma and I’m still alive. In retrospect, it was a completely idiotic thing to do, but it was a ****ing awesome experience worth having, I’d say.</p>
<p>also, here’s the URL I meant to include in the last post…
[15</a> geniuses who are also known drug addicts](<a href=“http://www.popcrunch.com/15-geniuses-who-are-also-known-drug-addicts/]15”>15 Geniuses Who Are Also Known Drug Addicts - popcrunch.com)</p>
<p>Thanks, thealbatross. I don’t know where you all expect me to put them either. And I know you all think all drugs are awful or all drugs besides weed are awful but the truth is that there IS a such thing as responsible, safe drug use. Not all drugs are safe and I don’t use those. It’s all about knowing how much of something to take. (Hell, even some infrequent “irresponsible” drug use won’t kill you, though it’s not the smartest thing on earth.) As long as you do your research, are discreet, use moderation, and are generally not ■■■■■■■■ about the whole thing it’s completely fine.</p>