<p>Being nice doesn't mean a guy doesn't have a mind of his own or is just going to "give in" to everything you want. I personally think, being nice is just abt over-all attitude and not treating you like crap.</p>
<p>Nice guys suck. They really do. I really want a guy who, in college, flunks all his classes and eventually get kicked out because he's too busy getting wasted and doing jail time. And after he get kicked out, I want him to take his anger out on me everyday and eventually convince me to drop out too. After all, those bruises on my face and broken arms is evidence of his deep and undying love, no? When I go live with him, college and a good job are far away dreams now, I want to get an STD, or two, or three, from all the women he cheated me on. Isn't that so cool and exciting? I want to suffer not only externally from all the times he beats me, but also from festering sores all over my body! Yeah that's the life! Then I'm going to be pregnant two times a year since 20, and my first three babies are going to die of malnutrition and food poisoning because I had to juggle three different shifts at McDonald's, Walmart, and being a prostitute to pay for food and bills because my big bad boyfriend is too busy cheating on me and running in gangs. Woot!</p>
<p>When I'm 30, but fat, hair graying, and looking I'm 50, with three kids after the others died or were given up for adoption, I want that badass alpha male of mine to take off and just leave me. I so want to have to crawl to my high school enemies and beg for handouts, just to keep my kids alive. I can't go to my parents because they disowned me a long time ago, in disgust over my actions. At this moment I'm unsure whether my kids will live or ever go to school (they don't, because I'm still juggling those two shifts but can't make enough money since no man will have me when I'm so ugly so I can't be a prostitute anymore). I think two have some sort of STD since they were 8 and 10, but don't have the money to get them tested. </p>
<p>And now, the biggest adventure, I get kicked out into the street from my hut because the city wants to develop the slum I was living in! YEAH!!! Score! I wander the streets, and that's SO cool man, burning in summer and freezing in winter. I scavenge through trashcans and look enviously at students going to my almost alma mater. I've got that pinched and hungry look REALLY down well, aren't you proud of me? I know I am! <em>giggle</em>. I finally commit suicide because I can't bear my pathetic existence any longer, even my kids aren't enough to convince me to live. Not having enough money to get blades or pills, I drown myself. Woot! My life was SO GOOD! =)!!!</p>
<p>But really, I'm so NOT being sarcastic cause really, I don't want a nice guy who pays attention to me, helps me when I encounter a setback, listens to me, is someone my parents are proud of me going out with, and someone who will provide for me. Someone who can get along with authority figures, someone who can walk into a store without thinking of robbing it, someone who's empathetic and has a brain. Oh no, I'd NEVER want someone like that The horror! </p>
<p>..okay some viewpoints REALLY disgust me. =)</p>
<p>^ hahahahahah! exactly ;)</p>
<p>But i think whoever said you "you date a badguy you marry a nice guy" thing is right (although i seriously would go for the nice guy) I mean it's kinda like that with bad girls too... guys would go out with bad girls(?) but wouldn't think about marrying them. It'll be surprising if they thought of them even more than one night stand.</p>
<p>It doesn't matter whether you are nice or not. Girls couldn't care less about how nice you are. All they care about is how good looking you are.</p>
<p>All they care about is how good looking you are</p>
<p>^ partially true. But i mean if they look great but have *****y attitude (even worse.. violent), then girls want to lose them pretty fast. XP</p>
<p>Hmm, I should add in words like hot, sexy, etc. to my post.</p>
<p>Women are idiots when it comes to the nice guy/bad ass comparison. Anyone who stays with someone who beats them is a dumbass. Anyone who stays with someone who cheats on them constantly is a total dumbass. Anyone who stays with someone who verbally abuses them every chance they get, and calls them fat all the time, is a complete dumbass. There are many women out there who stay with individuals like those I just described, thinking they can change the man. Here's a clue idiot, if he's been beating you for 5 years, he will still beat you in the future. I have absolutely no sympathy for someone who stays in this type of relationship whatsoever, and that's how your life will turn out if you stay with "badasses."</p>
<p>If I am a nice guy, am I doomed to be single until I'm 40? Because I don't plan to wait that long for some girl who finally wants to wind down after a long streak of flings. I don't want to set myself up for this.</p>
<p>Also, why should the guys be the only ones subject to rejection?</p>
<p>because guys for the most part are more concerned with getting laid.</p>
<p>I think some of you ladies are confusing a bad boy type with a complete failure in life type.</p>
<p>The date a bad boy, marry a nice guy ethos is dead on for many women. However, if you've ever overheard a group of late 20something to 30 something women whine about the lack of nice guys available to them then you'll realize that most nice guys are snatched up when they are younger.</p>
<p>Think about it.</p>
<p>Says: I want a man who is motivated and has goals.
Means: I want a rich man</p>
<p>Says: I want a man who knows how to treat a woman.
Means: I want a rich man</p>
<p>Says: He's from a really good family.
Means: He's from a really rich family.</p>
<p>Lol, this must be the funniest site in the universe!</p>
<p>melli: lets see if we can fix up the end of your post to say what you really meant.</p>
<p>".......I want a nice guy who [will do what I want], helps me when [I want], [is a good friend and just a friend], is someone my parents are proud of me going out with [because he has or is making a lot of money], and someone who will [provide me with anything I want]. Someone who [knows how to get in trouble with authority], someone who can walk into a store,[rob it and get away], someone who's [apathetic] and has a brain [that helps him keep his good job that brings in the $$$]....."</p>
<p>:P</p>
<p>Wow, first time I checked this since I made this thread, didnt know people found it so interesting. After reading all the posts, this is the conclusion I came up with:</p>
<p>I have a chance being a nice guy.</p>
<p>^Noooooo, you're gonna be screwed for life......!!!!!</p>
<p>Lol omg Balmes Pavlov.</p>