Down to the wire and still doubtful

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<p>My daughter does wild and crazy.:slight_smile: But I am sure there are other things planned as well. It is a good time to explore the campus and check out clubs. Many clubs (sports, dance, drama) use the orientation week to recruit new members. It is a great way for freshmen to meet people with similar interests.</p>

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<p>Heron, let her fly. It sounds like she is having a perfectly normal transition. It’s ok to be worried, but please keep it to yourself and don’t let her see it. She is holding up her end and giving it a go, good for her. Trust in her abilities and focus on all the reasons why she will fit in, not why she won’t. Try to stay busy these next few days. I recommend reading “Letting Go”, it’s very good at helping parents deal with the conflicting emotions we all have at this time in our kids’ lives.</p>

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<p>Someone recently sent me a card that said “The shell must break before the bird can fly” (Tennyson).</p>

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<p>I’d have some wonderful comment if my eyes weren’t so blurred with tears.</p>

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<p>Heron, I think it’s great news (even though it’s really no news).</p>

<p>As for having time before classes begin, I think it’s a good thing. I would hope that there are some activities planned! My D thought it was all pretty lame, but it was a good way to get the kids mixing. D’s was a full week, which she thought was too long. In fact, the school shortened it this year. A full week gave her a bit too much time to dwell on loneliness.</p>

<p>Your D will call you when she’s ready. Hang in there — the call will come soon!</p>

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<p>Heron, how’s it going? Hear from her?</p>

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<p>Many (most?) schools have move-in day up to a week prior to classes starting. Orientation activities fill those days. Usually there are enough different activities/events to keep a kid busy. If the kid is sitting around in their room ‘stewing’, it’s likely their choice!</p>