<p>Soooo, in short, I went to my buddy's frat party, and then this girl started wrapping her arms around me and it kept going on and on. She wasn't that bad at all when I got there, but by the end of the night, she had thrown up and needed to lie down. Anyway, the part I feel bad about is that I REALLY wanted to leave that party to go to take my buddy to MY frat's party, but she wouldn't go cause her (sober) friend wouldn't let her. We hooked up and what not, but I feel bad in that she told me she needed to sit down and then I bailed. I later found out she threw up. I don't know, she was pretty hammered by the end of the night, especially compared to when I got there. She kept asking me my name and wouldn't let go of me. I was drunk myself but was aware of everything around me by the end of the night. I dont know, do you think I should just drop it or should i add her on facebook or something? Just to make sure she is alright? I don't want to come off as that a**hole who ditched her at a party, but then again I was not planning on staying as long as I did...</p>
<p>Did you know her before last night? If not, don’t add her on Facebook. She seems clingy and sloppy.</p>
<p>No, I had no idea who she was. All I have is her name. She told me she wanted leave to my place but I didnt let that happen cause I started to notice the late liquor kicking in</p>
<p>I wouldn’t friend her. I’d just drop it and ignore her. Icanread is right – she seems needy, and I really don’t see the appeal of a girl who lets herself get that messed up and drunk.</p>
<p>-1 for clingers.</p>
<p>I dont know man, it was doable for the most part. she was just attached to the hip to her friend, and would grab me by the arm to WHEREVER her friend went. I was afraid if I added her, she would either be like “I dont know this creepo” or “it’s this a**hole” but I don’t know…I don’t got anything to lose I guess. I was gonna send her a message too, to see if she was okay…but this is totally defeating the purpose of hooking up…</p>
<p>what the hell do you mean by “hooking up”</p>
<p>the term has become so twisted and re-defined that I don’t get it anymore</p>
<p>Just tell us what you did, did you make out with each other? A quick wham-bam-thank you ma’am?</p>
<p>what the hell does it matter? we just made out and felt up. nothing past that</p>
<p>so you made out with a girl at a party and left…</p>
<p>what’s the problem? you could’ve said you knocked boots with her and left, and there would still be no problem…it’s a party, a FRAT party, you’re both drunk (her so much that she’s falling all over you), there is no issue here in any way. if you’re afraid she’s going to see you and go pms on your ass (she wouldn’t), she probably won’t even remember you</p>
<p>btw, hooking up usually means hitting that in my book, not just fondling.</p>
<p>Sounds like he just has “random hookup” remorse. Soldier on, brosef.</p>
<p>psh, as a girl, I say drop it and move on. Sounds like she was drunk and sloppy, but she had a friend with her and is probably fine. I don’t think you really did anything wrong.</p>
<p>If she was that smashed, she probably doesn’t even remember you… and random drunken hookups are common. You didn’t do anything wrong. I’m sure she’s fine now.</p>
<p>If she was with a sober friend, that sober friend was likely taking care of her-- which is also probably why she wouldn’t let her leave with you. She is probably fine.</p>
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<p>It matters because if you had sex she could charge you with rape. Intoxication nullifies consent. So yeah, it matters.</p>
<p>Perhaps if you weren’t so stupid in your decision-making you wouldn’t be having this problem</p>
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<p>Get off your high horse.</p>
<p>Another friendly discussion on CC.</p>
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<p>Fixed.</p>
<p>Oh wait, I forgot that only one gender is responsible for controlling their alcohol intake.</p>
<p>I never said it mattered mate, don’t be so defensive.</p>
<p>@Chuy, I’m not accusing the OP of sexual assault, far from it, but if someone breaks into a car left unlocked by its owner, does that lessen his offense?</p>
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<p>As a girl, I find that offensive. They were both drunk. It takes two to tango. They would have BOTH made a stupid decision. By saying HE made the decision it makes it seem as though the girl is the only one who could have been taken advantage of- rather than them BOTH being drunk. Now if he was sober, that would be a completely different story. </p>
<p>Honestly, she probably barely remembers you- or if she does, she might not want to see you again because she made a fool of herself lol. Just move on.</p>
<p>ITT: Baelor, insufferable, again.</p>