<p>...or would/want to hook up with.</p>
<p>^ Definitely not, its actually the other way round in my opinion. A girl can have guy friends who she has not hooked up with and does not want to hook up with, but a guy's female friends are always girls he has hooked up with or wants to hook up with.</p>
<p>Or, you know, girls and guys can be friends without wanting to hook up.</p>
<p>Shocking concept, I know.</p>
<p>Shocking, but not very common. More often than not, badman's post will hold true.</p>
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<p>Agreed. I don't know about the rest of you guys, but I'm not interested in STDs, child support, rape accusations, etc. Celibacy FTW!</p>
<p>There's a difference between wanting to hook up and actually hooking up. Just because someone chooses not to, does not mean they don't want to.</p>
<p>Come on, herecomesthesun. I agree that there are definitely a lot of freshman girls that think hooking up at frat parties is the quickest way to be accepted, but not all (or even most) of the girls that don't fit the unattractive bookworms category. </p>
<p>I'm a freshman at a state school...and I have plenty of attractive female friends that know how to draw the line between having fun and being a whore. </p>
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<p>Yeah...ok. Why is it that I'm almost always the exception to the "all girls are like this" things? Hm...probably because they're never true of all girls? I understand that stereotypes are made based on true things, but stop acting like they fit all girls cause they don't.</p>
<p>I figure that it's far more likely for the guy to be the one wanting to hook up with their female friends. People always tell me that it's true of all male/female friendships, but I have a really hard time believing that. And I know for sure that I don't want to do anything with any of my guy friends. Unless you count the guy I'm seeing...but yeah...I was interested in him from day one, so I never saw him as just a guy friend.</p>
<p>What do you people mean by "hook up"? I always thought it was sex, but at my school, it means making out.</p>
<p>katho: I didn't say that there aren't attractive girls that aren't slutty. This thread is about high school girls compared to college girls, and at least in my personal experience (my own experiences as well as observing others) there is a much greater percentage of slutty college freshman than slutty high school girls, for the reasons I mentioned before - basically freedom and wanting to be a social butterfly. Also, the extent of sluttiness is really increased - instead of a few beers and a blunt when someone's parents are out of town, its 10 jello shots and maybe even a couple lines of coke at a frat house. And instead of playing spin-the-bottle, its having sex with a different guy every weekend. Of course, this isn't everyone, but its a lot of girls. And even if they aren't that extreme, they are probably participating in that scene and have friends that are that extreme.</p>
<p>True. Sorry for misunderstanding your point.</p>
<p>It kind of depends from high school to high school, though. My high school had a ton of slutty girls and guys (seriously...random sex in bathrooms, stairwells, the works) and a very high teen pregnancy rate...not to mention the pasture parties and what not...so yeah, I don't really see that much difference either way at my university.</p>
<p>I'm sure it really depends on your high school and your college.</p>
<p>(I am a highschool junior)
Usually between 10 and 20 people will end up at my house or in the desert every friday, and there is a definate contrast between how guys and girls drink. While girls tend to be more reserved now, I think this conservative attitude goes away once they escape their families and the social atmosphere where they feel like they are being judged. Then again, we all go to neighboring all boys/girls jesuit schools, so everyone's individuality is being repressed every day.</p>
<p>But my best friend's sister (highschool sophomore) drinks like a sailor. So take that cum grano salis.</p>
<p>Everyone is immature. Everyone is just craving attention. Its just whether you are open about it or not. I think it is harder for girls, and it shows in their behavior. BUt it really does depend on local.</p>
<p>Forget the differences with girls/women between high school and college, and work on yourself. There will always be a lot of different kinds of women, some superficial, some not, some hot, some not, some smart, some not. Find out what floats your boat, but more importantly work on your rap. Not just your talk but who you are and how you approach women. Just 'cause you are smart or think you're a good catch does not mean women will see that. Just 'cause you were shy in high school but think you are turning over a new leaf does not mean you will necessarily in college.</p>
<p>There is a famous cognitive psychologist who taught himself how to talk to women by talking to strangers he met I think it was at a bustop in New York when he was 19. Apparently he'd go out for hours and work on his approach. He crashed and burned for awhile, but then got his groove on. He turned into a noted Don Juan type. Now that may not be your objective, but you won't learn how to talk to girls, those of you who are too shy, unless you work on it like working out at the gym or practicing a musical instrument or something.</p>
<p>Good luck.</p>
<p>college girls are so much better. since I made some friends at the flagship regional U in my state, Ive hooked up with way more college girls than high school. high school girls just think theyre too hot and they usually get weeded out by not going to college or going to 'presigious' private and lower profile schools.</p>
<p>"there is a much greater percentage of slutty college freshman than slutty high school girls"</p>
<p>You sure about that?</p>
<p>That's...not really true.</p>
<p>See I always figure that people didn't actually change when they get to college, they just got more opportunities to display their true personality. So if you've got typical party girl slut at your high school....well, she can't get to too many parties because of her parents and she can't be too slutty because there just aren't enough of the right type of guys at the school. She gets more opportunities when she gets to college, but it doesn't mean that she's actually "changed", the mentality was always there. </p>
<p>Also, interestingly, none of the girls that I've met at my own school are really like that (they make fun of them, though), yet one of my old friends who goes to another school and all the people that she's met are like that (and they think people who aren't are sooo terribly dull). All depends on the campus culture.</p>
<p>And yeah, once again, I've got zero interest in dating any of my guy "friends", but they are apparently only interested in dating me and not too much else.</p>
<p>Because I sure as hell am not encountering those types of girls.</p>
<p>"Because I sure as hell am not encountering those types of girls."</p>
<p>May I introduce you to....sorostitutes :)</p>
<p>NYU sororities? What a joke.</p>