<p>Lalah - I am not going to apologize for not sugar coating reality. Go back and re-read your original post - there was definitely some whining in there.</p>
<p>I feel for you - honestly, in that your life is not what you would like it to be. I can’t imagine what good will come of permanent estrangement from your parents. Your life will be much more difficult for many more years. </p>
<p>It will be virtually impossible to get financial aid and loans without your parents help. You probably don’t have any credit and will need a co-signer for any private loans that you may want to secure. If you want to be completely independent, you will have to get a job, a place to live, health ins. etc. School will not be a priority, making rent every month will be.</p>
<p>I totally agree with the idea of finding a counselor who is experienced in immigrant issues and parent/child relationships. Sounds like an excellent start.</p>
<p>I am not sure what your parents expect from you going forward - if your father expects you to transfer to UVa that isn’t going to happen.</p>
<p>Lastly, if you are going to put forth the time and effort (not to mention money) to go to school then concentrate on school. Make it your number one priority and do it for yourself. Don’t go for your parents. If your personal issues are overwhelming then you may need to take some time off school to get your life in order. Good Luck, kiddo.</p>