<p>See, I was the oldest girl too. I honestly think oldest girls from our type of cultural background have it the hardest. </p>
<p>My youngest brother certainly had it the easiest. By the time his turn came, my parents were already broken in by me and the rest. :)</p>
<p>I have the most developed strength of character and work ethic though so it all evens out. The harshness of my early environment helped me I think. </p>
<p>NSM has a good suggestion regarding expression appreciation for what they do for you. Don’t be disappointed and let down if they do not respond in kind. People’s mindset can take a long time to change. Try to remember IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT that they behave the way they do.</p>