<p>she leaves in two weeks for Europe, what am I gonna do?=(</p>
<p>Ever seen Harold and Kumar: Escape from Guantanamo Bay? That. </p>
<p>Or you could just wait. Idfk.</p>
<p>I agree with many of the others…the whole going through the internet thing is creepy when you have friends in common. Maybe she knows more about you than you think and isn’t responding because she is not interested…how about ask the common ground friends? If there is an interest on both ends…why wouldn’t you two be talking on the phone or in person already?
If your friends aren’t so encouraging to get in more contact with her, it is because for some reason, she is not interested…so drop it. If you continue to try and contact her, etc when she clearly isn’t interested…that is just plain weird!
Good luck!</p>
<p>heres an update…
ok so we ended the semester and all we would do is talk on aim or text once in a while.
then she im’d me twice…two nights in a row. this gives me the hint that…shes somewhat interested…i’m not saying she LIKES me, but at least she enjoys my presence. those two nights we end up talking until 3 am…both nights!!!..and then last week, we talked EVERY night on aim for hours and we had some texts here or there. everything was going great, she told me a lot about herself and I really got to know her. I got on a level with her, where i couldn’t even imagine i would be. the fact that shes macedonian makes everything so easy, because we can relate to each other so well.
but then…the bad news…
today was her flight for Europe at 4pm…she wont be back until September, but she said shed be on aim sometimes and i could still call her and stuff. I knew i was gonna be upset, but right now I’m in depression mode…i miss her soooo much!!1
and because of this, in my mind i know she could be the one. I’ve never cared for anyone like this…EVER. I just picked up another job so that i could stop thinkin about her. right now…im just trying to get by these next two months, and I cant wait to see her…
anyways…thanks again for all the comments…most of you guys were a big help!!</p>
<p>Dude, you’re going about this the wrong way. Don’t talk to her for hours on AIM bro, you’re making yourself too easy to get for her. Her IM’ing you is good, but doesn’t mean you need to talk to her for so long. </p>
<p>And wait for her to contact you while she’s away rather than you contact her, you’re going to appear needy.</p>
<p>And please do me a favor and go out to a party or something with your boys and talk to some girls, make some moves, PRACTICE for your own sake lol. </p>
<p>I know you’re probably not gonna go out and “practice,” but if this girl is really all that don’t you wanna be ready for her, know exactly what to say without thinking, know how to kiss her, how to handle the relationship, etc.? </p>
<p>Thought so. 
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<p>These months apart may help fix the many mistakes you’ve made so far if you’re lucky. </p>
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<p>^ Quoted For Truth.</p>
<p>In my brutally honest opinion, you will never get this girl. You, my young grasshopper, are in the friend zone. the FRIEND ZONEEEEEEE…You have fallen into the pool when the blanket thing is still on…there is no getting out of the friend zone.</p>
<p>LOL…ok
I’m not an idiot guys…I can take a hint. If she didnt want anything to do with me, in that way, i would know by now, and i would just stop. There are times where i lose hope…but she keeps coming back. I Know I’m not in her friend zone…because im not in her “group” of friends. We are the only two macedonians at our college, out of 15,000. does that mean we are “meant to be”…of course not. it does mean that we can relate to each other, and that she can tell me things that she hasn’t told anyone else, which she has already done. because of our strict culture and religion, I have the best chance with her, because she simply cant be with anyone who is not macedonian or Muslim. Im the only one that fits that description. dont all relationships start with freindship anyway? we are friends…but i wouldnt say that im in her “friend zone”.
what i wanna know is…how do i give her the hint…without being so aggressive? and i dont want to hear…“just tell her”…because i dont wanna scare her. and i dont wanna hear…“just kiss her”…because of our religion and culture. I wanna know how to give her the hint, without being creepy or weird. I have some time, since shes in europe.
again…thanks for the comments…you guys are a really big help!!!</p>
<p>and im not gonna go out and practice on other girls…I want her…and nobody else.</p>
<p>I’m really sorry (more than you know), but you are in friend zone. Period. Just because you are the only guy she can date, doesn’t mean she has to date you. Good luck, though. I hope all ends well.</p>
<p>get over her already, there’s friggen 4 billion girls on this planet -.-</p>
<p>This is a lost cause and you’re gonna end up being hurt.</p>
<p>But then again you may never know because I don’t think you really have the cojones to ask her straight up to enter into a relationship with you.</p>
<p>thanks for the concern…
id know if i was in her friend zone…i thought you were suppost to be friends first anyway.
and I will end up telling her, but i dont want to do it so soon, i’ve just met her. I will tell her one day, when the time is right, which should be soon.
and yes i know theres billions of girls, but like ive said before, this is one is special…</p>
<p>I shouldn’t be surprised by the comments being thrown out there in this thread, especially because most of them are coming from college boys, but I am. It really amazes me how people are discussing these two as if they were pets that can be trained. These are human beings. The suggestions being offered are suggesting inappropriate manipulation of a person and are in many ways objectifying.</p>
<p>My only advice to you is not to take the things written in this thread to heart. The comments are from naive twits who know next to nothing about relationships (you can’t blame them…no one at that age really does). Also, please don’t obsess over this. Relationships in college rarely last. You’re young. You’ll find someone when you’re older and wiser.</p>
<p>“You’ll find someone when you’re older and wiser.”</p>
<p>If not dying alone isn’t a bad option. Just do it in style.</p>
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Uhh…not sure what you’re getting at here. Please clarify.</p>
<p>BodaciousG…you sir, are a bigger buzz kill than buzz killington.</p>
<p>Agreed. ABANDON FACEBOOK. Facebook is meant for networking and keeping in touch with people you are already on good terms with. It is not meant for getting to know people. Also, you’re coming off as socially inept at best and creepy at worst. If you haven’t already put her off (which seems likely), have your roommate orchestrate a very casual setting in which the two of you can meet. If it doesn’t work out, who cares? She’s attractive and she’s Macedonian? That’s cool, but IM is a notoriously misleading medium of communication. It allows people to idealize others and themselves.</p>
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That’s MAM.</p>
<p>@BodaciousG: What i’m saying is, dying alone isn’t a bad way to go. But if you’re going down that route I would recommend you going out in style. Like taking a couple to people with you perhaps? For me, I would go with the slow and painful option at a suicide booth.</p>