I need some girl advice

<p>I mean…it sounds like he’s doing some things right to me. They hang out whenever she’s around, he walks her to class, etc. etc. I’m sure she gets the message, and it seems like she’s into it, too. He doesn’t need to like seduce her (especially because I have a feeling they’re both pretty conservative), he could just ask her out on an actual date.</p>

<p>ok …everyone has to calm down, like leah^^^^said we are both very conservative. Were both Muslim and in our religion were not really suppost to have girlfriends, and she cant have a boyfrend, so theres no need to rush( however if it does work out we have to keep it on th DL =)). If i rush into it, I’m gonna be like every other guy she’s met that’s hit on her, I want to be different,I want to get to know her. Dont you have to be friends with someone first before you start dating. It’s not like I’m one of her close friends anyway. I’ve been progressing steadily, it used to be just a wave whenever i saw her but now we talk for a little bit. sooner or later were going to spend a day together whether its going to the city, or just having something to eat. I cant really tell if she’s into me yet though. She seems to be herself when she’s around me, like she tells me things that she wouldnt tell others. I just dont know if she likes me “in that way” yet. How do i know???</p>

<p>dude, search “double your dating ebook torrent” in google…get it…read it…your trying to hard man just be cool…dont concentrate on one girl…dont walk her to class all the time let her walk you to class…dont always be available to talk/spend time with her…girls want a challenge whether they admit it or not…you have to make the decisions not her…you decide when to hang out…things of value are hard to get…make yourself valuable…just read that ebook tho that pretty well sums things up</p>

<p>Pic or didn’t happen</p>

<p>ok i know its been two months, but i’ve decided to give anyone who still cares an update.
Alright so i kept doing the same things I was, and I ended up hanging out with her a lot throughout the spring semester. Everything went smoothly. She even gave me her screen name without me asking!!!, so like two days later I asked for her number, and she willingly gave it to me. And then one night i went on aim, and i saw that she was online, so messaged her, and we had a great one hour convo. However in the convo, she told me about some “drama”, that she was involved in during the fall semester. I was suprised she told me, and like a week later she told me I was one of the persons she really trusts. Anyway, we kept talkin online, and writing on each others facebook walls, and we hung out whenever she was on campus, which wasnt much. Next thing you know, its finals and we said our goodbyes. We still talk online a lot, but It’s hard for me to see her because we both have strict parents. In one month she’s leaving for Europe, and I’m freaking out because I really want to see her, but I know its almost impossible. I kind of just want to tell her I like her, but I dont want to scare her away. I mean its only been one semester…but look how far I’ve gotten!!! I need some advice on how to give her hints that I like her through aim or facebook without actually telling her. I know i sound cowardly, but this girl is definitly worth waiting. I just dont know what to do now!!!</p>

<p>Send her a pocket rocket in the mail.</p>

<p>honestly sounds like it’s too late to me. seems like she really trusts you and you’re a close friend. at this point telling her you like her would probably ruin the friendship.</p>

<p>" dude, search “double your dating ebook torrent” in google…get it…read it…"</p>

<h2>ONLY ON CC LOLOLOOLOOOL</h2>

<p>Like someone else has said: make a real move so she doesn’t forget you when “someone else with balls is hitting on her”</p>

<p>You think it’s abnormal that you like her after one semester? I was asked out by my boyfriend a week or two after we met, and now we’ve been dating for 8 or 9 months.</p>

<p>Sometimes you don’t even need to tell her that you like her, in my case I was just asked out and it was pretty much understood. If you want, call her up and ask her on a date. Make sure she knows it’s a date. Tell her that you want to take her out. During the date, make your move, add some sexual tension. Touch her hand, smile. Make her heart flutter a little.</p>

<p>If this isn’t possible, chat about about where you guys are on the phone. Be ambiguous, but charming. You want to keep her wondering, so don’t outright tell her “I like you”, but again, add some sexual tension. Don’t tell her with words, but let her get the impression that you want something more than just friendship.</p>

<p>Is she going to Europe for a while, or will she be back? Try to sneak a date before Europe, if it goes well, she’ll be daydreaming of you the whole time.</p>

<p>This is the best thread ever. IT is HILARIOUS! omg lol</p>

<p>Omigosh, this tread is fun :slight_smile: Okay , I have one question, what is TMM?</p>

<p>TMM is akin to slamming a windowsill, hard, down on your meat pole. Only you believe you will get women to like you when you’re done. Your wallet might be a bit lighter too.</p>

<p>“Some of the advice on here is the reason people in this country are so unhappy and the divorce rate is so damn high.”</p>

<p>my advice is the reason people are unhappy? :(</p>

<p>if you guys end up together and like get married and have kids (just hypothetically), then this thread will be super funny to show her someday</p>

<p>hahahah i agree this is hilarious, and I’m so glad people are still commenting !!!
the thing is, im gonna know if she’s “into me” by the end of next semester. you guys that are saying make a move quick…its not like that, she’s way too conservative, and so am I.
her parents are way to strict, and I’m macedonian, which gives me an advantage over anyone. I cant rush things, because I dont want to scare her away, and I feel like if I tell her, then it would just get awkward. Im giving her little hints, and sooner or later i think she’ll get the hint.
you guys have to understand, I’ve never done this. I’ve never cared so much about a girl before. In high school, I’d have crushes, i mean everyone does…but I would never try anything with them because of my religion and culture. theres something special about this girl, I really hope it works out.</p>

<p>^^Awww that’s sweet. Good luck, and go for it. :)</p>

<p>If you keep up the messages and attention, she will know you like her. I bet she already has gotten the hint. You’re right to go slowly and respect your shared religion and culture. She doesn’t want some fast talking slick willy who is trying to push American moves on her. Hope it works out for you both!</p>

<p>Keep on doing what you’re doing then, bud… good luck!</p>

<p>I bet she is reading this thread. I think Beef is actually your crush.</p>

<p>LMAO…OMG, imagine if she was…hhahahahah</p>