<p>The way you guys conduct your interactions, especially after all this time, to me, is pretty indicative that she sees you as a just a friend (and yes I am taking into account the fact that you are both conservative). Even the most conservative types I know tend to progress and come forth a bit harder with the hints.</p>
<p>Just because you guys spend a lot of time talking online doesn’t mean there’s a strong romantic interest. There are plenty of girls I talk with very often on a regular basis, but we’re just good friends who confide in each other.</p>
<p>This isn’t to say, though, that I don’t hope you guys work out. That would be pretty cool, no doubt, but I worry that you’re dumping too much emotion into this girl when you haven’t even gone steady yet. Either way, you should probably make a move soon and let it be known that you’re romantically interested.</p>
<p>after about 3 months, im still after this girl. I know…i know, a lot of you are just like ***, just let me explain…</p>
<p>for anyone still following this story…i just wanna say thank you. Anyway here goes…
ok so, the semester starts, we havent seen each other all summer. i see her…we stare at each other for like a min or so…and she runs up to me and hugs me. from that point, I knew this semester was going to be different. EVERY SINGLE DAY form then (about a month and a half has passed) we have hung out together whenever we had breaks…and we hung out alone. we would go out to eat, study together or just talk for hours. I realized that since she commutes…she comes an hour early, and leaves an hour late and spends both those hours alone with me. I walk her to class, i walk her to her car, i buy her food, now, I understand, that if i were any other guy, by now, i would have told her…but thats the thing, IM DIFFERENT.I’ve been patient with her. Its come to the point where im pretty sure shes going to say yes, im just trying to find the day, time and words to tell her. The thing is, in our macedonian culture, the person who we ask for…ends up being your wife, because we dont date. this is why, ive been so patient, because i had to find out if she can potentially be my wife. and now, ive never been sure of anything more in my life. I feel like im at a level with her now, where we both already know, its just up to me to bring it to the table. I just wanna find the right place and right words to tell her. I plan on telling her on thursday. im gonna sit her down, and tell her how im feeling, even though I know shes feeling the same way. WISH ME LUCK.
and btw…if your going to make stupid comments, dont bother, lets all try to be mature here…i understand that ive waited reallyyyyy long, but it all seems to have paid off.</p>