I've fallen on my TA...what should I do?!

<p>@zchryevns FYI: I’m not “onegoal”. Two different people.</p>

<p>Sorry for being a little harsh earlier…but I would really appreciate it if someone could provide some advice/insight. Thank you very much.</p>

<p>First things first, lose some weight so it won’t be such a big deal the next time you fall on her.</p>

<p>Gosh, guys…you know what I’m talking about LOL. I’ve fallen FOR my TA…hard. Any people out there we haven’t heard from?</p>

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<p>It looks like the only thing left for you to do is to get up, help him up, apologize, and walk away. Remember to look where you walk next time.
posting on the internet for advice is probably not the fast track solution anyway.</p>

<p>^ I fell in love with my TA. I didn’t fall on her. The semester is like almost over and I’m so nervous that I won’t be able to see her again. :(</p>

<p>Here’s some math for you:</p>

<p>You=Rising sophmore=FRESHMAN=18 or 19 year old guy (I’m assuming. If you’re female this is a completely different thing)</p>

<p>TA=Grad student=23 or older girl (if in her first year)</p>

<p>Most girls find guys their own age immature…Forget about one’s probably more than four years younger who have no grasp of grammar.</p>

<p>^ Rising sophomore = sophomore->junior.</p>

<p>Grasp of grammer? My TA is not a native English speaker. I just happen to type fast and never bother to do spell check, check for grammar, etc.</p>

<p>Yes, I do agree with you a lot that the average male range in the 18-23 range is very immature. However, having said that, I never go to parties, don’t attend any undergraduate clubs, and mostly attend events for GAs.</p>

<p>EDIT: In addition, I do find some undergraduate women immature for that matter.</p>

<p>based on what i know grad students are discouraged from dating undergrads. i’m sure it still happens, but its supposedly frowned upon.</p>

<p>^ I know it’s frowned upon if the TA has a teaching supervisory over the student, however, what if the TA is no long a supervisor over the student, no?</p>

<p>This thread is meaningless without pics. How are we supposed to give you advice without pics??</p>

<p>I really need some honest advice…although I dont have any pics (that’s freaky). I’m really in love with my CHM TA. Like really, really in love.</p>

<p>Uh…what?!</p>

<p>Rising sophomore means summer before sophomore year.
You meant rising junior. Which really doesn’t change things. </p>

<p>Yes, TA’s date students sometimes, but notice that it’s almost always male students dating female students. Humanity has not yet gotten to the point where it can over look the centuries old tradition of a man marrying a younger woman. At first it was due to social differences, but it has continued because females just mature faster. I’m not trying to make a sexist statement, but females finish puberty by sixteen. Men are not completely done until their early twenties.
Also not drinking does not make you mature. The fact that you think it does actually says the opposite.</p>

<p>Quote: “Also not drinking does not make you mature. The fact that you think it does actually says the opposite.”
Of course, drinking does not make one mature and I totally agree with you. I am non-drinker (although wine may be okay, but this depends on what country I am in as I travel internationally a lot). This reminds me of how my roommate (on campus, non-selected), is a drinker and it bothers me A LOT.</p>

<p>It true that women in general (on average) do develop faster than men.</p>

<p>EDIT: My social life tends to revolve around an more older crowd.</p>

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Lol, doubtful.</p>

<p>Why do you say “doubtful”? Please provide references to support your opinion.</p>

<p>You say you’ve “fallen on” (should be for, first of all) your TA. One does not fall in love (or believe they have fallen in love) with someone they do not really know unless they are incredibly immature.

You are uncomfortable with the fact that your roommate enjoys alcohol, further displaying your immaturity.

A more older crowd*, although “more older” is redundant.</p>

<p>Yes. Please refer to previous discussion. I do not normal make grammatical mistakes like that. I have been busy lately as it’s almost the end of the semester. I am also an international student and I have to worry about summer storage and contracts. The fact that I am uncomfortable with alcohol does not demonstrate immaturity. Some people just aren’t drinkers and do not like alcohol. I have had relatives die from a car accident due to the driver being cognitively impairedx resulting in a car accident that took away lives.</p>

<p>EDIT: We’re not writing a thesis dissertion paper here, so let’s keep it casual. It’s only an online forum.</p>

<p>-Sent from my iPhone</p>

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Kekeke.</p>

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It does. It’s okay to not enjoy drinking, but to be made extremely uncomfortable by the mere presence of alcohol does demonstrate immaturity.</p>

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Obvious ■■■■■ is obvious.</p>