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<p>Really? Some guys do not like girls who are sloppy and drunk. It’s a turnoff to many guys whether you think so or not.</p>
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<p>No. You are totally wrong. I honestly don’t know how you could take that from my post, since I was going in the completely opposite direction. But thanks for letting me know about your prejudices.</p>
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<p>Uhm. In what way, “like?” I don’t understand how you could make a claim that encompasses, oh, all men everywhere. And I personally do not like drunk girls of any variety.</p>
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<p>Whether they want to hook up is irrelevant (“they” can be any gender). Using intoxicated people to have sex is degrading. One-night stands are degrading. Pornography is degrading. The “degrading” component is completely distinct from consent or desire.</p>
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<p>Duh. Legally they are permitted to. My own opinions are exactly that, but if I believe in them in an absolute manner, I’m going to apply them as such.</p>
<p>^^^ No you are wrong.</p>
<p>A guy may not want to marry a girl who is always drunk (or that type), but it’s not a problem for just a Friday night.</p>
<p>Uhm. In what way, “like?” I don’t understand how you could make a claim that encompasses, oh, all men everywhere. And I personally do not like drunk girls of any variety. ~ Baelor</p>
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<p>I doubt that you like any girls, drunk or sober.</p>
<h2>Whether they want to hook up is irrelevant (“they” can be any gender). Using intoxicated people to have sex is degrading. One-night stands are degrading. Pornography is degrading. The “degrading” component is completely distinct from consent or desire. ~ Baelor</h2>
<p>eh, worry about yourself.</p>
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<p>Wow. Seriously, not all guys are shallow pricks who just want a ■■■■■ and nothing else for a Friday night. Not every guy likes random hook-ups. You need to get out of that mindset.</p>
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<p>I know. My closest friends are all celibate for religious reasons. And they function in normal society. This mindset is so skewed. At least I can acknowledge that mine is in the minority.</p>
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<p>Sorry, other people are my concern too.</p>
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<p>I’m impressed. You responded with a total non-argument.</p>
<p>Ah, the great “No. You are totally wrong” argument. So much empirical and logic evidence! If you say it enough times, maybe it will come true! Let me know when you decide to respond like an adult, thanks.</p>
<p>How is a one-night stand degrading? How is a person drinking, then deciding to flirt and hook up with people, ‘degrading’?</p>
<p>You have a lot of growing up and maturing to do, my friend.</p>
<p>Wow. Seriously, not all guys are shallow pricks who just want a ■■■■■ and nothing else for a Friday night. Not every guy likes random hook-ups. You need to get out of that mindset. ~ Romangypsyeyes</p>
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<p>^^^ Guys are as honorable as their options sweetheart.</p>
<p>All those guys who you say don’t want to hookup or have one night stands (whoever they are), would change their opinion pretty quick of the hot blonde from down the hall walked into their room wearing nothing but high heels, begging to hookup.</p>
<p>Then you would see what their real stance on the subject is…</p>
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<p>That’s because there wasn’t an argument to be had. I did not intend to engage you on anything other than what I was actually arguing. The easiest way to do that was not to respond to your point at all and thereby force the discussion into what I actually meant it to be.</p>
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<p>About what? “No, you are totally wrong” referred to my intent. There is no room for empiricism here given that the only consideration is what I was thinking at the time. Perhaps we will have such room for objective data when Inception is released on Friday.</p>
<p>Also: Adults don’t respond with juvenile sarcasm to other adults. Food for thought.</p>
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<p>Degradation occurs whenever someone uses someone else for sex. So, yes, statistically, that would include most instances of intercourse.</p>
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<p>No. But thanks for the incorrect forewarning.</p>
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<p>LOL. You are such an idiot.</p>
<p>unfortunately, the we will not be within driving distance and I will see her maybe 3 times before next summer. and after that, shes off to college (not the one im going to). So it makes no sense and it seems naive to think it would work. right now my biggest difficulty is the “seeing her with other guys” issue. I need to get over it. I am a big pu55y. </p>
<p>thanks for the responses guys, really</p>
<p>I was in a long-distance relationship for my first year of college. Skype made it not so bad, and we got to see each other at least once a month usually. You’ll find that you will be extremely busy in college, more so than in high school, and this will make the time pass quickly and enjoyably between visits. You spend much less time in college than you do in high school because the semesters are shorter, so you’re home before you know it. It sounds like breaking up is the wrong thing for you to do, but only you and your girlfriend can make that decision.</p>
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<p>What if it’s just for self-esteem?</p>
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<p>My stance on your maturity stands.</p>
<p>God is dead, Jesus probably got head, and you were born when your mom used your dad for sex.</p>
<p>mvilla: so did you guys break up? </p>
<p>enough with the bickering guys!! :P</p>
<p>wow, @ssholes, shut the *uck up. </p>
<p>OP: 1) skype
2) breaks in college are longer, meaning that depending on where you go, you may have up to a month at home to spend with her (more during the summer).
3) depending on the amount of geographic separation, you can take trips on long weekends and stuff like that.
4) You need to develop a social life among your new college peers. Having friends to hang out with will make life much less lonely.</p>
<p>If you can’t stand to think of breaking up with her now, then express your desire not to. That doesn’t mean she’ll be willing to go along with it, however. If you do stay together and one of you decides that he/she just can’t take it anymore, then you will likely feel more comfortable about ending it than if you didn’t try.</p>
<p>^ Tufts 2014?</p>
<p>You know a lot about relationships after high school. ;-P</p>
<p>giving somebody the advice which I am going to be following myself is certainly more relevant and helpful to this situation than engaging in a p1ssing contest about drunken college sex in which one deliberately tries to insult the religious beliefs of another person in order to compensate for a lack of wit.</p>
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<p>LOL. I didn’t want to call people out on this, but it happens all the time on CC. Incoming freshmen telling others what college life is all about and how to handle the first few weeks, etc.,</p>
<p>Quite the interesting turn this thread took. </p>
<p>Anyway, OP, give yourself a month. Don’t think about the longterm 14-months, but just give yourself one month to sincerely and dedicatedly focus on trying to enjoy your new enviornment and meeting new people without worrying about her. </p>
<p>After the month is over, reevaluate the situation–it’ll be much easier after you’ve taken time to genuiny step back. Think about whether you’re still feeling particularly upset about her–or if you’re in a better place. </p>
<p>Then make a decision from there of what to do.</p>
<p>I actually would consider IBFootballer’s advice seriously.</p>
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<p>Please. I’m clearly not the immature one here. See? I can make unfounded statements too. Grow up – come join me up here!</p>