<p>Thank you everyone for replying and offering your perspectives on my situation. Ive learned quite a bit just from reading these posts. Ill try to answer any questions that were asked.</p>
<p>For clarification, some of the colleges that I’m looking into are – UIUC, CMU, Cornell, UMich, UPenn, Princeton.
My stats, I suppose, would be considered less than stellar when considering ivy league schools. Here’s a brief summary. – 33 ACT, 730 Chem, 750 US Hist, Hardest schedule possible, 3.8UW GPA no real “hook”, played trumpet for 7.5 years, abundance of performance awards and top spots in state/regional orchestras.</p>
<p>The reason I would like to apply for so many reaches is because its always been my dream (at least since I can remember) to go to a top school. With my stats it seems like I don’t have that great of a chance to get into top schools. The way I see it, if I apply to more reaches, I have a greater chance of getting into at least 1 of them.</p>
<p>Also, both my parents only applied to one university because their parents were both professors at them.</p>
<p>@parent56
I go to a rural public school usually never send ANYONE to top schools (I think we’ve sent 3 to the ivy league in 60 some years). I’ve spoken with my gc and he knows very little about any of the schools I’m interested in with the exception of UIUC. I do not believe a meeting with him and my father would help things. I may consider it though.</p>
<p>@annasdaad
My mother is not in the picture. She does live with us, but whenever I try to converse with her about anything college related she automatically says the ole “talk to your father about it.”</p>
<p>@rachelfran
My high school does have an admissions seminar. However, as I stated early in this post it will not be focused on any top schools. From what I’ve heard, they talk about directional state Us with very low qualifications.</p>
<p>@proudwismom
You mentioned other ways to show interest? Do you have anything specific in mind? Do you know how I can get in contact with current students?</p>
<p>@Schoomcgoo
I have had that discussion with him, and finances are a non-issue. My grandfather gifted me with a great deal of money for my education.</p>
<p>@turbo93
Thank you for the information. I will definitely be looking more into those details in the coming weeks and narrow down my list that way.</p>
<p>@mom2collegekids
That could be it, and that is what I suspect part of it to be. I’m not quite sure why he wouldn’t simply come right out and say it though. Financial issues in my family are usually kept out in the open for all to talk about.</p>
<p>@Idwendy
No, he is not an immigrant, he went to a state U (which was the only one he applied to). I’m not quite sure why he has this view on the admissions process. Thank you for the information about virtual tours though, I will look into those.</p>
<p>@getalifemom
I’ve tried to get my parents my parents researching and helping me out in my search, but they will not. It often seems like they don’t even care which school I go to.</p>