Now, I don’t mean to sound rude, but his learning disorder may lead to some problems in college, not much academically, but more socially. He told me that he had a learning disorder, so I didn’t assume anything.
Whenever I first moved in on Sunday, (he moved in on Friday because he’s a freshman), he told me that he stayed in his room all weekend just eating snacks that he brought from home instead of going to the dining hall. I noticed that he stays in his room most of the time playing on his phone, tablet, laptop, or my Xbox that I brought up to school. He only leaves the dorm whenever he has class or goes for lunch/dinner. But, I don’t have a problem with him using my Xbox because I play with him as well.
I asked him to go to a party with me sometime and he said that he wouldn’t mind going to one, but I fear that his lack of social skills may lead to some problems at the party. I also don’t want to deny him if he wants to go out because it would be a mean gesture from me. Even if we went together, then he would follow me because he wouldn’t know what to do. This is understandable from his situation, but I shouldn’t be going through a game plan before, during, and even after the party. Most people get it right away before they go to their first party without being told a full plan on what it’s like, but it might take a few parties before he gets it down pat.
Now, I understand that I can do other things with him besides partying, but I have my own school work to focus on, so he needs to try some things on his own. I’ll not always be there for him.
Also, I even introduced him to some my friends from last year, but he still had trouble connecting with them.
Even though it’s only the first week of school, this gave me a possible insight of what he’s like as a person. Maybe things will change, maybe not. I will see if I can fix this situation to the best of my ability, but I’d like some advice from you.