<p>Well, she has made her decision, and in the grand scheme of things, not the end of the world by any means....if it was the right one, that is great, if it is the wrong one, well, that is okay too. She is lucky that she is able to get into a college now, so she doesn't lose time.</p>
<p>As an aside, and to perhaps help others, and this is not to judge, or anything, but as we have seen on this site kids may on many different forums, not referring to this thread alone:</p>
<p>not be cut out for dorm life
not have picked the right school for them
have too high expextations for what college will be (see wanna's posts)
not really known what they wanted</p>
<p>And those are all okay and understandable</p>
<p>I am just wondering if the kids and parents ask themselves the right questions when starting the process:</p>
<p>what kind of studier am I
do I want a "party school" (lots do-egad)
what are my expectations- are they realistic
will I be able to settle down and work
do I want a smaller school, or a large one
what life experiences have I had to prepare me
am I dong something because everyone else wants me too
or
am I doing it because it is something i really want</p>
<p>crisspyp- maybe later on, when things settle down and D is all set up, maybe you might have some insight to share that might help other families</p>
<p>you have been very gracious through all of this, and I am sure your daughter felt it, even though we on this site can be a coming at you wlth all kinds of opinions, suggestions, and ideas.</p>
<p>Good luck, and take care</p>