<p>My wife is a fairly senior Federal government manager. She earns lots of money by Federal Government standards. I like that a lot. She has helped me maintain a life style I have become accutomed to although sometimes she forgets I'm not her staff.</p>
<p>I haven't read through all the posts, so excuse me if this is repetitive. First, you are at a University, right? Think Faculty! Not your own professors, I think that's verboten, but there should be places faculty hang out, and they may have friends who are not at the school.
Also, to meet men, go where men hang out. Bars at steak joints, sports bars, the gym (not aerobic classes), take up a sport you like - not just to meet people - but you may meet people, too, especially if it is tennis or golf or fishing or running or hiking...not yoga or gymnastics if you get my drift. Just some ways my friends have met people.</p>