<p>Are girls interested in a guy who has lots of confidence or a guy that lacks confidence..</p>
<p>girls may be interested in getting an unconfident guy out of his shell, but she'll probably be more attracted to someone who is confident.</p>
<p>(but i'm male, so i can't be sure)</p>
<p>Lots of Confidence</p>
<p>Depends. I usually don't care much one way or the other. I don't want someone on either extreme. But it's nice to have someone who isn't constantly stating "I hate my life." </p>
<p>In other words, don't be cocky but don't be emo.</p>
<p>Seriously?</p>
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... don't be cocky but don't be emo.
I agree with this.</p>
<p>^I completely agree.</p>
<p>^ i agree too. </p>
<p>basically, in my eyes, a guy should be confident, but not too cocky, although sometimes it can be cute, but when it gets to a certian point it just seems like they are full of themselves.</p>
<p>Being a guy, I can say that I far more enjoy being around girls who are confident than sad and down on themselves. Thus I would assume it works the same way for girls' perceptions of guys.</p>
<p>Depends on what a guy is "confident" about!</p>
<p>^Haha. Well said.</p>
<p>I definitely like guys who are confident in themselves. I don't like when guys are cocky though. For me, lacking confidence is a major turnoff. The second a guy says, "I'm not good enough for you." in my head I'm like, "Yeah... you're not." I hate hate hate when people aren't confident, especially when it gets to the point where they're always fishing for compliments. You don't have to be the most attractive person in a room to be confident. </p>
<p>I've been to parties where the hottest guy in the room is shy and not confident in himself, and because of that he's sittin in the corner with one friend and not having fun. Meanwhile, the not so good looking guy with boatloads of confidence is working the room, having a blast, and being the life of the party. That guy is so much more attractive to me than the hottie in the corner. Most of the girls I know would say the same thing as me.</p>
<p>^yeah, but there's also too much confidence, which can get extremely annoying.</p>
<p>I don't like cocky guys, but they shouldn't be constantly putting themselves down either. A guy should have self esteem, but he shouldn't be big-headed. He doesn't have to be super outgoing or confident initially, but as I get to know him better he should become more confident. It's normal to be self-conscious or nervous around someone you like, but that should go away once there's an actual relationship.</p>
<p>Some confidence. My boyfriend is (secretly) very self conscious - although it may not seem like he is. He constantly needs me to tell him that I love him and he is very insecure if I am out with other boys. Guys with low confidence seem to not trust you as much as those that do and believe me, not being trusted is very frustrating when I did nothing wrong!</p>
<p>confidence( without cockiness) is extreeeeeeemly attractive</p>
<p>Girls like ***holes! Don't know why. I admit I do and I HATE IT. but yeah, don't be one. Be more confident than not.</p>
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Girls like ***holes!
I don't at all.</p>
<p>well i didnt mean all, but most that I know agree that they seem to fall for them. maybe its just our girl way of blaming the guy.</p>
<p>Confident all the way!!!!!!!!!! It totally bothers me when people are not confident. I can be cocky so I guess I don't mind guys been cocky either.</p>