<p><em>raises hand</em> I hate my school. Maybe hate is a bit of a strong word, but right now I just feel like its something to live through and be gotten over with so I can move on to the next stage in my life, its not something I particularly enjoy. Its mostly my fault, too.</p>
<p>In high school I was one of those kids everyone loves to hate who didnt really try particularly hard but still did very well. I got good grades but I never got into this business of taking AP classes just because theyd raise my gpa or searching for impressive ECs. Im the only person in my family who ever really went to college, so my parents didnt have any ideas about it other than that I had to go, and that I should go somewhere cheap, and I didnt really have any ideas other than I wanted to go somewhere good (but I didnt really know what good was), and what my major was going to be. We toured a bunch of colleges but I never really loved any of them. I was wait listed at the one that I liked the most, and out of the rest I chose the one I attended because it had a decent climate and it was in a large city, which I thought would be an interesting experience. I also had a best friend going to a college that was right nearby, and while I told myself that that wasnt the reason I was choosing this school, that really wasnt entirely true. I didnt really pay much attention to the colleges themselves, just their locations.</p>
<p>My freshmen year, I alternated between saying I hated it to go along with the in-joke that everyone hates the school, and actually hating it. Ive always been really horrible at making friends and never managed to have much of a social life in high school, so I was hoping that in college I could be normal. My first mistake in trying to be normal, aside from being really shy, was the fact that I didnt want to drink. People will tell you, thats cool, I respect your choice to your face, but then you will find yourself somehow excluded from all of their weekend plans (which happen to involve drinking). By the end of freshmen year I had a few casual friends in my major, but I was unhappy with the major itself. I hung onto it because I was afraid that if I switched Id lose all the friends that I had and not make any new ones. I ended up living with some of the girls from my major and I ended up switching anyway. </p>
<p>I did consider transferring at this point, but since it was summer I would have had to wait until the next fall to start at the new school. I was worried that a lot of my credits wouldnt transfer, and that I would end up having to start over from scratch making friends at whatever new school that I went to, and I figured Id also have to start in the second year, which would give me 5 total years of school. I actually got halfway through an application before I decided that the pros didnt outweigh the cons and I gave up. I never made friends in the new major. </p>
<p>I never saw my old friends except when I ran into them on campus. My roommates kicked me out the very day my half-done transfer application was due. I got an apartment by myself. I was supposed to go on a six-month internship but I was unable to find a job and I ended up sitting around my apartment all day during that period. I went from averaging As and Bs in the first major to Bs and Cs in the new major. I think those were the first Cs Id ever gotten in my life. Around the end of my second year, the best friend from the nearby college decided she was too busy to bother talking to me. I tried joining a club to meet new people, but it turned out that like half the active members were people I already knew (and I know they dont like me). I still go to meetings because its that or stay in my apartment, but its kind of awkward. I have one more year left, theres no point in even considering a transfer or anything, so Im just going to stick it out. Im just hoping that the next stage of my life is better than this, but right now Im not real positive about my prospects of finding a job if I cant even get someone to hire me without pay for a few months. Looking back I feel like I was actually the happiest I was in a while my freshmen year, and then the next 2 years were just a waste of my life. Im hoping thatll go away once I graduate.</p>