<p>So I'm pretty sure my roommate has a full-blown problem with sex and I was wondering if it'd be out-of-line to bring it up out of sheer concern for her well-being.</p>
<p>First of all, she needs to stop doing it while I'm in the flaming room. Our beds are bunked and I feel like I'm on a damned carnival ride during. Last night, for instance, I needed to be at class and couldn't sleep all night, so eventually I just pounded on the wall and told them to...well some choice words. I would have gotten out of the bed and told the kid to march his ass out of my room only I didn't have any pajama pants on and that required maneuvering myself out of the top bunk. They started later again like a couple of rabits. Eventually I was so tired I slept through an important class--the last one before finals.</p>
<p>This is over the 7th time she's had sex with me in the room. Since August, I've lost count, but she's been with something around 13 boys from my knowledge, and 3 boys just in this week. I totally have no qualms with people having a night of casual sex, but this is ridiculous. Whenever a girl we know mentions they like somebody, my roommate is set on an automatic conquest to have sex with him, like she's out to prove herself through sex. It just makes me irritated that she would degrade herself by getting on everything that gives her the slightest of attention. I think she confuses the attention she gets with platonic admiration, when it's very obviously cheap lust. How do I bring this up with her? It's just so personal that I almost feel I don't have a right to be concerned about it. (Though I definitely have every right to bring up sex in the room, cause that's shady as all get-out.)</p>
<p>I'd say the only thing you can do is talk to her. If it gets to the point that you two are screaming at eachother, walk away, and try again after some time. If that doesn't work, talk to your RA or someone else about switching roommates.</p>
<p>talk to the roommate, and if necesary, the RA. Her use of the room that you share detracts from your ability to use it to sleep and study, which is what the room is intended for. Trying to change roommates will just fob this problem onto whoever else has to room with this girl. It would be better if someone established some clear ground-rules with her.</p>
<p>Can I get her screen name? Jk. In all honesty, she will probably end up hurting herself by way of an STD or pregnancy. Things have a way of working out.</p>
<p>Maybe you could begin by addressing it as a problem of having guests in the room too long, or something similar. It's causing you problems in terms of making it to class, studying, sleeping presumably, all of which is unacceptable no matter if she's banging these guests or not. Perhaps then if you are comfortable enough you could segway to your concerns about all these random guys and her health (physical and mental) and reputation. And who the hell tries to have sex on a dorm bunk, anyway? Twin beds are narrow enough as it is, when you add height to the equation, that's just bad news.</p>
<p>yo she is a real ho if shes ****in around with 13 guys at the same time. What u need to do is confront her. Tell her that it is ur room too and you have the right to fell comfortable in it. And if she acts like a bitch tell the RA</p>
<p>i would definetly talk to your roomate about how it bothers you. just be frank with her. if she starts to blow up in front of you or just ignores you or something report it to the R.A. that's what they're there for. anyways hope this helps.</p>