<p>“Interesting. I posted a pic on Hot or Not and some handsome men showed interest in me. One of them was even buff. So I guess I’m not ugly after all! Yay!”</p>
<p>Post it here and we’ll tell you with all honesty if we would go after you.</p>
<p>^ Nah, that’s okay. I really do not want to be identified here. :)</p>
<p>haha bmwdude is still an idiot.</p>
<p>Well, the first thing I would do if I were you is start asking guys out. Some will not be interested, and that’s okay. Just keep at it. The more people you ask out, the higher odds you’ll have of finding someone who’s mutually interested.</p>
<p>Also, I would work on being more confident. Your posts come across as being kind of needy/desperate. “I’m not fat! Fat girls get guys, so why don’t I? I’m attractive, I think . . . Okay, I just posted on Hot or Not and confirmed I’m attractive, phew!”</p>
<p>Hot or not websites are usually BS</p>
<p>why don’t you post your picture on photobucket or something and ask people on Yahoo! answers if your’e hot or ugly? haha</p>
<p>I don’t care anymore. I have finals and my future career to focus on. If a man comes to me that’s fabulous, but I will now work on being the best me I can be. If I reach self-actualization, everything will flow my way.</p>
<p>Later fellas.</p>
<p>Don’t forget to keep taking your medication.</p>
<p>Being “the best me I can be” also entails hitting the gym so that you look fit and are fit.</p>
<p>Just sayin’.</p>
<p>“not a fat girl according to medical or personal opinions.” </p>
<p>What does that mean? I have a BMI of 20.9 (24.9 is overweight) and girls still don’t ask me out. What’s your BMI?</p>
<p>How tall are you?</p>
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<p>Truer words have never been spoken. If I was ugly I would just kill myself. But seriously, fat by aesthetic standards and fat by medical standards are two completely different things. So stop eating so much and try to improve your appearance because your physical beauty is literally 90% of your worth to a man and, unless you look good, you’re not going to get a desirable guy.</p>
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<p>As horrible as this sounds, I would too. I think the only reason I wasn’t chewed and spit out in secondary school was because I was decent looking. Oh yeah, my family would outright hate me if I was ugly. Sad, but true. I’m not even kidding.</p>
<p>I wouldn’t hate my kid if he/she was ugly, but I’m sure as hell not having kids with someone who isn’t very hot. Therefore, my kids should be good looking. Looks are extremely important in life. And not just with dating. This is why I make sure I dress well, bodybuild, have good hygiene, and thank god (jk, god doesn’t exist) that I’m genetically gifted as well.</p>
<p>I’m sorry guys, but this sounds really superficial. Looks aren’t everything. I’ve been attracted to and gone out with girls who weren’t 9s or 10s because they impressed me in some other way (intelligence/personality, fencing skills, etc…). But I would have to agree with the fact that confidence, optimism, and athleticism are definitely appealing.
Self-deprecation repels the opposite sex (and anyone else for that matter), and makes like dismal. Trust me, I spent most of my life as an isolated pessimist. But confidence and optimism naturally attract people to you and make life fun. The last 2 years of my life have been more fun than I can express because I changed my outlook and started taking chances.</p>
<p>To be yourself is all that you can do…</p>
<p>I’m interested. 
haha jk jk</p>
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yeah, but are you a 9 or 10 yourself? if not, saying you don’t go out with girls who are 10’s isn’t saying much. I agree with your point that looks aren’t everything (especially if you’re a guy) but they’re still the first thing people noticed - you can’t really tell how funny or kind someone is by looking at them.</p>
<p>it’s not like ugly people can’t ever get laid…because eventually the 2’s end up with other 2’s…if not, ugly people would just die out through natural selection :P</p>
<p>Is it just me or doesn’t an awesome personality kind of /make/ someone appear hotter? </p>
<p>Just saying because I am into a girl that I can /tell/ is not attractive in a typical sense, but guys are always drooling over her, probably because something about her personality makes her appear hotter than she might genetically be ;).</p>
<p>So, I wouldn’t say looks on a purely “first sight” basis are very important, as someone can become more or less attractive over time depending on how they act.</p>
<p>On the opposite end of the spectrum, I would say physically I’m very good looking, but in terms of my personality I can come off as really awkward, and that makes me actually look uglier…it’s something about the body language…maybe a slumped posture or sense of uncomfortableness contributes to it. But eh.</p>
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<p>LOL Then all the 5,6,7+ would be the new 1,2,and 3’s</p>
<p>because you’re going after the same guys as every other girl and some of those girls are probably better looking. you gotta come to terms with what god’s given you. stop being so superficial and find a man that’s neither ugly nor handsome with a good sense of humor and treats u well, not necessarily puts you on a pedestal but likes you.</p>