<p>Start reading her facebook every night. Take note of anything funny she says or someone else says to her. Try and find out info about her schedule like when she has certain classes, when she goes to the gym, where she goes to church, etc. Then start going to these places, but act casual and try and accidentally run into her. Get near her, but dont say hi. Hope that she initiates the conversation first. If she does, start talking about things you’ve learned about her from her facebook. Be yourself, and bring up topics you are knowledgable about like world of warcraft, anime, different internet forums, and the local furry scene. If there’s a stall in the conversation, immediately lean in and kiss her without thinking. Make sure there’s a bunch of people around so that she will feel guilty about embarassing you if she tries to stop you.</p>
<p>Second, why do you have oneitis for this broad? Theres plenty of girls on this site giving you advice and let me tell you now, they’re all wrong.</p>
<p>Never listen to another female when it comes to advice with girls because they don’t know what they want. You want to seem interesting to her? Cut off contact. You want her to do the chasing? Get off WoW and actually work on yourself. If you don’t attract her these ways then I guarantee you’ll attract someone else.</p>
<p>Okay look, as a girl I can tell you that what I’m attracted to is CONFIDENCE. You have to show me that you are comfortable with who you are, you won’t cling to my side, but you’ll be there when I need it, you can keep up with me and my lifestyle, you can make me laugh, we have similar interests, and you are not narcissistic. This is s general summary, but unfortunately you don’t sound very prominent in some of that. You need to focus on yourself, and figure out who you are before you take on anyone else and their lives. Just be comfortable, life isn’t about dating and this girl, there’s more, go find it!</p>
<p>By the way, girls are going to give you way better advice than JTB021, will, as he’s no where close to the workings of a girl brain. I know exactly what I want and so do most girls. (:</p>
While seeking relationship advice from this site is generally speaking laughable, taking relationship advice from a girl who thinks most girls know what they want is a little pitiful.</p>
<p>^^ I surround myself with people who know what they want, cause I don’t deal with whiny people who are unsure of themselves, but maybe that’s just me.</p>
<p>So, you’re saying I’m either lying to you about whether i know what I want, or I’m lying to myself about actually knowing what I want? Either way, you’re wrong and I’d appreciate it if you didn’t try and bash me just because I happen to be a GIRL who’s got it figured out. Forget your stereotype and move on.</p>
<p>I’m sorry, but who said that what I wanted involved anything close to that? I understand that no, it’s not common, but it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. And honestly, I’m not going to waste my time trying to prove anything to close-minded strangers on the Internet.</p>
<p>Ok. You’re in college, you haven’t lived enough or have enough experience in a long lasting relationship to know what you want. An outrageous thing to say. There are couples that have been married for 50 years that have gotten a divorce simply because they felt that at this point they weren’t right for each other. And I’m not close minded, I just know the truth. Listen I’m not trying to bash you but I think it’s just outrageous.</p>
<p>Lol @ lrose2011 for thinking she knows what she wants. Trust me OP, the guys that girls typically claim they want get stuck in the friend zone. Girls can lie all day about looks not mattering but if you’re ugly I can guarantee they won’t give a crap about your personality.</p>
<p>Just work on yourself and the girls will come.</p>
<p>As a girl all I can say is don’t read too much into every little action a girl does.
I had an experience where I was talking to a guy about some anime and it was just fun to talk about it. I had no interest in him except for the fact that we had one or two things in common. We would hang out and I know I may laughed or played my hair but I do those things when I talk to girls as well and im not sexually attracted to women. It’s just little things I do without really paying too much attention. So then he starts flirting with me and then asked me out. I froze and ****ing bolted.
If the friendship is starting don’t ruin it and if a relationship beyond friendship is meant to happen it will, but don’t bet on it.
Hmm…
Also confidence is very attractive. Not saying looks aren’t important, but if you don’t have confidence and the ability to hold a conversation than it’s really a major turn off.</p>
<p>@Irose2011
No one really has the right to say what you know or don’t know about your personal self. Since they aren’t you they can’t really judge.
Some people find it hard to believe that a young woman can know what she wants.
To a certain extent we all know what we want but we rarely get it or end up with it in the end …plus as we change and get older we usually learn from our life experiences and from that we can alter what we want or don’t want. </p>
<p>Kinda rambling, but basically I’m on your side bc I find it more rare to find a woman who doesn’t know what she wants.</p>